"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Taking girl to the gym

nan3109

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Alright, so there's this girl i met at a party off campus and we both go to the same school. We went before to work out and stuff and we're again tonight but I don't know.

Are there some suggestions you guys have? Maybe some good exercises I could teach her or "stretches"? Anything I could say to lead her to hanging out more one on one? Tips Tips!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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duke007

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Do the exercise where the two of you sit facing each other, interlock legs and throw a medicine ball back and forth
 

LucidDreamer

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Light barbell curls in the mirror or facing each other. You could also show her how to squat -- you could spot her too in which you basically get right behind her and follow her down then up...kinda sexy huh?
 
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