"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Taking girl to the gym

nan3109

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Alright, so there's this girl i met at a party off campus and we both go to the same school. We went before to work out and stuff and we're again tonight but I don't know.

Are there some suggestions you guys have? Maybe some good exercises I could teach her or "stretches"? Anything I could say to lead her to hanging out more one on one? Tips Tips!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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duke007

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Do the exercise where the two of you sit facing each other, interlock legs and throw a medicine ball back and forth
 

LucidDreamer

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Light barbell curls in the mirror or facing each other. You could also show her how to squat -- you could spot her too in which you basically get right behind her and follow her down then up...kinda sexy huh?
 
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