"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Taking Control

O

Oni

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 18, 2004
Messages
260
Reaction score
0
In our group there's a guy thats always talking the loudest and making the jokes. It's time to take away his position and retrieve my spot as the head of the group. Problem is it seems everyone is so supportive of him that i dont have much supporters to begin with. what can i do
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

A

Ace of Flames

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 11, 2006
Messages
1,500
Reaction score
16
Location
Everywhere you want to be.... I'm like a Visa card
find a new group?

sounds like politics man. and politicians suck. dont start flingin insults and all that. lol

if u wanna be the leader, be a leader. walk out in front of everyone and lead the way. when everyone is arguing about what to do or where to go, decide on something and go with it. its all natural selection man. so just do what comes natural and take over. thats all i gotta say.
 
O

Oni

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 18, 2004
Messages
260
Reaction score
0
i know, leading and stuff i do all the time, but this guy, you can say hes the "attention *****" of the group.
 
O

Oni

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 18, 2004
Messages
260
Reaction score
0
i'm pretty good at commanding part, but when it coems to attention its all diverted to him.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

A

Ace of Flames

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 11, 2006
Messages
1,500
Reaction score
16
Location
Everywhere you want to be.... I'm like a Visa card
attention *****s suck..... there is this one guy in our school, thankfully i dont talk to him or anything. but he like runs across the cafeteria and jumps on tables and stuff, screamin and acting crazy. weirdo....

i guess the best thing to do is try to get away from him. like make some excuse so he ends up seperated from u and the rest of the group. if u do that enough, they'll look to u for their leader. give it a try, see how it flys.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top