"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Taking Control

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In our group there's a guy thats always talking the loudest and making the jokes. It's time to take away his position and retrieve my spot as the head of the group. Problem is it seems everyone is so supportive of him that i dont have much supporters to begin with. what can i do
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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find a new group?

sounds like politics man. and politicians suck. dont start flingin insults and all that. lol

if u wanna be the leader, be a leader. walk out in front of everyone and lead the way. when everyone is arguing about what to do or where to go, decide on something and go with it. its all natural selection man. so just do what comes natural and take over. thats all i gotta say.
 

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i know, leading and stuff i do all the time, but this guy, you can say hes the "attention *****" of the group.
 

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i'm pretty good at commanding part, but when it coems to attention its all diverted to him.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ace of Flames

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attention *****s suck..... there is this one guy in our school, thankfully i dont talk to him or anything. but he like runs across the cafeteria and jumps on tables and stuff, screamin and acting crazy. weirdo....

i guess the best thing to do is try to get away from him. like make some excuse so he ends up seperated from u and the rest of the group. if u do that enough, they'll look to u for their leader. give it a try, see how it flys.
 
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