"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Taking a replacement girl as my date..

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PimpOfTheSouth

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I have a girl that I have been talking with just a bit we have been on 2 dates recently but in my general opinion I don't think her IL is that high even though she hasn't flaked and has been to my apartment. I just get the general feeling she's got someone else she's talking with right now.

My cousin's big graduation is coming up and I need a hot date. I'm pretty sure she will go. I texted her asking if she wanted to go.. with it being this weekend and I haven't got a response from her. In the mean time I have found a replacement for the graduation. My question is should I text Girl #1 "Never mind I found a date for the graduation, but thanks any way:)"

Idk If this is going to far but I think it's alright putting a little heat on her.
What do yall guys think?
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Willard

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If she texts you back and wants to go, just say "never mind" and leave it at that, if she wants an answer you could say, oh, you never responded, I already have a date. Try not to be available to her unless she starts showing a lot of interest.
 
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Just act like you never texted her. She'll probably text you in a day or two to apologize and explain how she's been busy the last few days. When she does, carry on like usual. If she asks about the graduation, just say you went with a friend.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't text her. Just move on with your life. If she responds later with bs about being busy just day never mind like other people said.
 
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