"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Taking a replacement girl as my date..

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PimpOfTheSouth

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I have a girl that I have been talking with just a bit we have been on 2 dates recently but in my general opinion I don't think her IL is that high even though she hasn't flaked and has been to my apartment. I just get the general feeling she's got someone else she's talking with right now.

My cousin's big graduation is coming up and I need a hot date. I'm pretty sure she will go. I texted her asking if she wanted to go.. with it being this weekend and I haven't got a response from her. In the mean time I have found a replacement for the graduation. My question is should I text Girl #1 "Never mind I found a date for the graduation, but thanks any way:)"

Idk If this is going to far but I think it's alright putting a little heat on her.
What do yall guys think?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Willard

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If she texts you back and wants to go, just say "never mind" and leave it at that, if she wants an answer you could say, oh, you never responded, I already have a date. Try not to be available to her unless she starts showing a lot of interest.
 
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Just act like you never texted her. She'll probably text you in a day or two to apologize and explain how she's been busy the last few days. When she does, carry on like usual. If she asks about the graduation, just say you went with a friend.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't text her. Just move on with your life. If she responds later with bs about being busy just day never mind like other people said.
 
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