"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Taking a real talk approach with this new HB9

Johnny1986

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First off I generally keep it at HB7 because I like to date down (I know, pathetic) but her and I vibe really well so **** it. Also, she is only 24, I am 28 (she is younger than I usually go for)

Her and I have been talking here and there but now that the girl that I was serious about is no longer in the picture we started messaging a lot again. I no longer want her as an orbiter but want to bang her. I'm pretty sure that she is just agreeing with half the **** I say because she likes me but if not I think I'm really digging her. I'm basically cutting to the chase on what I think of females since I have taken the red pill. Is it dangerous to let a woman in on **** like this and possibly more? Guess it just seems easier to get these types of mindsets out of the way early on so that boundry setting is easier later on. Here is part of our convo today. Also, I said "lets hang out on the weekend" And she said "I have next tuesday off and I am usually more sociable on days off" I normally would have agreed to it but basically said "Nah, weekend or no deal, unless you wanna just come right to my condo on tuesday and not go out" (aka we are ****ing) she kind of agreed to that and thats where I stand now. One more thing...she keeps trying to give me her number to text but I keep just msging her on POF

Convo today with HB9..her pictures and name are blocked for privacy:


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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pyros

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you're acting odd dude.

She offered one day to hang out with you, and you should have taking it, ie, Tuesday, and you should have gone to grab a drink etc.
However you acted weird, and suggested to come to your place just fo sex (wrong move).

You think that she is coming to your place just to f-uck? lmao...
 

SmooveMooves

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You're overthinking man, and as a result acting weird as shít.

Take her number, and stop being weird. Lol

There's keeping an alpha frame, and then, there's whatever the hell you're doing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Johnny1986

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I asked her out on a date for the weekend and she immediately countered with a different day. I said no...the whole point of this is that I'm trying not to be a passive ***** boy allowing her way to be law.

I'm ONLY texting after we've hung out as I'm not doing the "text all day" be like I did with the last one. Texting is only for setting up hangouts.
 
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