"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Taking a real talk approach with this new HB9

Johnny1986

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First off I generally keep it at HB7 because I like to date down (I know, pathetic) but her and I vibe really well so **** it. Also, she is only 24, I am 28 (she is younger than I usually go for)

Her and I have been talking here and there but now that the girl that I was serious about is no longer in the picture we started messaging a lot again. I no longer want her as an orbiter but want to bang her. I'm pretty sure that she is just agreeing with half the **** I say because she likes me but if not I think I'm really digging her. I'm basically cutting to the chase on what I think of females since I have taken the red pill. Is it dangerous to let a woman in on **** like this and possibly more? Guess it just seems easier to get these types of mindsets out of the way early on so that boundry setting is easier later on. Here is part of our convo today. Also, I said "lets hang out on the weekend" And she said "I have next tuesday off and I am usually more sociable on days off" I normally would have agreed to it but basically said "Nah, weekend or no deal, unless you wanna just come right to my condo on tuesday and not go out" (aka we are ****ing) she kind of agreed to that and thats where I stand now. One more thing...she keeps trying to give me her number to text but I keep just msging her on POF

Convo today with HB9..her pictures and name are blocked for privacy:


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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pyros

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you're acting odd dude.

She offered one day to hang out with you, and you should have taking it, ie, Tuesday, and you should have gone to grab a drink etc.
However you acted weird, and suggested to come to your place just fo sex (wrong move).

You think that she is coming to your place just to f-uck? lmao...
 

SmooveMooves

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You're overthinking man, and as a result acting weird as shít.

Take her number, and stop being weird. Lol

There's keeping an alpha frame, and then, there's whatever the hell you're doing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Johnny1986

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I asked her out on a date for the weekend and she immediately countered with a different day. I said no...the whole point of this is that I'm trying not to be a passive ***** boy allowing her way to be law.

I'm ONLY texting after we've hung out as I'm not doing the "text all day" be like I did with the last one. Texting is only for setting up hangouts.
 
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