"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Taking a real talk approach with this new HB9

Johnny1986

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First off I generally keep it at HB7 because I like to date down (I know, pathetic) but her and I vibe really well so **** it. Also, she is only 24, I am 28 (she is younger than I usually go for)

Her and I have been talking here and there but now that the girl that I was serious about is no longer in the picture we started messaging a lot again. I no longer want her as an orbiter but want to bang her. I'm pretty sure that she is just agreeing with half the **** I say because she likes me but if not I think I'm really digging her. I'm basically cutting to the chase on what I think of females since I have taken the red pill. Is it dangerous to let a woman in on **** like this and possibly more? Guess it just seems easier to get these types of mindsets out of the way early on so that boundry setting is easier later on. Here is part of our convo today. Also, I said "lets hang out on the weekend" And she said "I have next tuesday off and I am usually more sociable on days off" I normally would have agreed to it but basically said "Nah, weekend or no deal, unless you wanna just come right to my condo on tuesday and not go out" (aka we are ****ing) she kind of agreed to that and thats where I stand now. One more thing...she keeps trying to give me her number to text but I keep just msging her on POF

Convo today with HB9..her pictures and name are blocked for privacy:


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pyros

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you're acting odd dude.

She offered one day to hang out with you, and you should have taking it, ie, Tuesday, and you should have gone to grab a drink etc.
However you acted weird, and suggested to come to your place just fo sex (wrong move).

You think that she is coming to your place just to f-uck? lmao...
 

SmooveMooves

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You're overthinking man, and as a result acting weird as shít.

Take her number, and stop being weird. Lol

There's keeping an alpha frame, and then, there's whatever the hell you're doing.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Johnny1986

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I asked her out on a date for the weekend and she immediately countered with a different day. I said no...the whole point of this is that I'm trying not to be a passive ***** boy allowing her way to be law.

I'm ONLY texting after we've hung out as I'm not doing the "text all day" be like I did with the last one. Texting is only for setting up hangouts.
 
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