"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Taking a latin dance class with a girl

Harmless420

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Hi my first post here

my situation is that this girl from one of my college class asked me to take beginner's latin dance class with her because she needs a partner
now obviously any dumb horny guys would take this
BUT she does have a boyfriend (1 and a half year relationship)
so should I take this latin dance class with her?
this would be a good chance to get personally close with her ;) :D

the thing is i never danced latin before :crackup:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sure if you want.

After all, it's not just about the girl, it's about learning how to latin dance, which is making you better in the end.
 

CosMoenTropic

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I wouldn't do it... your personality on this board will disgust her as much as it disgusts us

Be a man and spare her the injury
 

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Harmless420 said:
Hi my first post here

my situation is that this girl from one of my college class asked me to take beginner's latin dance class with her because she needs a partner
now obviously any dumb horny guys would take this
BUT she does have a boyfriend (1 and a half year relationship)
so should I take this latin dance class with her?
this would be a good chance to get personally close with her ;) :D

the thing is i never danced latin before :crackup:

Definitely, don't worry about the boyfriend, just pretend he doesn't exist, let her bring him up. If you're so bad at latin dance, after the first couple of sessions you might ask her to show you a couple of things (no you dirty bastard, i mean dance moves not her... ahem... physical attributes). You never know this might lead to some "horizontal dancing" later, as latin dancing is just so amazingly passionate.

Keep us updated, this might get interesting.

Good luck, playa.
 
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