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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Taking a latin dance class with a girl

Harmless420

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Hi my first post here

my situation is that this girl from one of my college class asked me to take beginner's latin dance class with her because she needs a partner
now obviously any dumb horny guys would take this
BUT she does have a boyfriend (1 and a half year relationship)
so should I take this latin dance class with her?
this would be a good chance to get personally close with her ;) :D

the thing is i never danced latin before :crackup:
 

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She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sure if you want.

After all, it's not just about the girl, it's about learning how to latin dance, which is making you better in the end.
 

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I wouldn't do it... your personality on this board will disgust her as much as it disgusts us

Be a man and spare her the injury
 

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Harmless420 said:
Hi my first post here

my situation is that this girl from one of my college class asked me to take beginner's latin dance class with her because she needs a partner
now obviously any dumb horny guys would take this
BUT she does have a boyfriend (1 and a half year relationship)
so should I take this latin dance class with her?
this would be a good chance to get personally close with her ;) :D

the thing is i never danced latin before :crackup:

Definitely, don't worry about the boyfriend, just pretend he doesn't exist, let her bring him up. If you're so bad at latin dance, after the first couple of sessions you might ask her to show you a couple of things (no you dirty bastard, i mean dance moves not her... ahem... physical attributes). You never know this might lead to some "horizontal dancing" later, as latin dancing is just so amazingly passionate.

Keep us updated, this might get interesting.

Good luck, playa.
 
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