"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Taking A break?

TryintobeMature

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If your girlfriend ask you for a "break" because she doesn't really knows
how she feels to you. What are you going to do?
What Am I going to DO?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Next her because this so-called break is actually some weak excuse to keep you at her disposal while she does random **** ?
I'm not sure, but that's what I'd do. Better take action than just sit there.
 

Nighthawk

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It's all over unless you start banging hotter chicks. Then she might want you back. If you still want her.
 

TryintobeMature

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It's just like we're boyfriend and girlfriend and she told me that she want to figure out how she would feel when I'm not there. Cause like she doesn't know her own feelings towards me.
I still want her and I love her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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KontrollerX

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TryintobeMature said:
It's just like we're boyfriend and girlfriend and she told me that she want to figure out how she would feel when I'm not there. Cause like she doesn't know her own feelings towards me.
I still want her and I love her.
Thats just a bunch of bullsh*t to string you along and keep you lapping up any little bit of attention she gives you until she can get her emotions cut off from you completely at which point you'll be offered the false olive branch of friendship because she can't stand to be hated by anybody.

Do not accept this friendship as its phony as well being a slow death of dignity for you as she transitions you into her girl friend who she will tell all about the other guys who are doing to her what you'd like to be doing and try to get relationship advice from you about them at times and use you for emotional comfort as needed when the road gets rocky for her in those relationships.

This kind of friendship is completely one sided, manipulative and exploitative as she will be using you and you will get nothing that you want from her in return.

Friendship like this is only acceptable if she offers you a FB type of deal.

As for "trying to figure out how she'd feel when you are not there" that is basically woman-ese for "I've found someone else and want to be alone with him while you think I'm considering the status of my relationship with you seriously."
 

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So what should your simple and short, non-emotional response be for the girl proposing the break?
 

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JimmyBizzle said:
So what should your simple and short, non-emotional response be for the girl proposing the break?
"Sounds Good to me"
 
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