"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Taking A break?

TryintobeMature

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If your girlfriend ask you for a "break" because she doesn't really knows
how she feels to you. What are you going to do?
What Am I going to DO?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Next her because this so-called break is actually some weak excuse to keep you at her disposal while she does random **** ?
I'm not sure, but that's what I'd do. Better take action than just sit there.
 

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It's all over unless you start banging hotter chicks. Then she might want you back. If you still want her.
 

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It's just like we're boyfriend and girlfriend and she told me that she want to figure out how she would feel when I'm not there. Cause like she doesn't know her own feelings towards me.
I still want her and I love her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TryintobeMature said:
It's just like we're boyfriend and girlfriend and she told me that she want to figure out how she would feel when I'm not there. Cause like she doesn't know her own feelings towards me.
I still want her and I love her.
Thats just a bunch of bullsh*t to string you along and keep you lapping up any little bit of attention she gives you until she can get her emotions cut off from you completely at which point you'll be offered the false olive branch of friendship because she can't stand to be hated by anybody.

Do not accept this friendship as its phony as well being a slow death of dignity for you as she transitions you into her girl friend who she will tell all about the other guys who are doing to her what you'd like to be doing and try to get relationship advice from you about them at times and use you for emotional comfort as needed when the road gets rocky for her in those relationships.

This kind of friendship is completely one sided, manipulative and exploitative as she will be using you and you will get nothing that you want from her in return.

Friendship like this is only acceptable if she offers you a FB type of deal.

As for "trying to figure out how she'd feel when you are not there" that is basically woman-ese for "I've found someone else and want to be alone with him while you think I'm considering the status of my relationship with you seriously."
 

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So what should your simple and short, non-emotional response be for the girl proposing the break?
 

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JimmyBizzle said:
So what should your simple and short, non-emotional response be for the girl proposing the break?
"Sounds Good to me"
 
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