"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Take your time.

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Take your time.

Take time to think of the right word.
Take time to come up with the right way to say something.
Take time giving a handshake.
Take time giving eye contact.
Take time giving a hug, kiss.

Calmly, take some seconds more.

///this was supposed to be a reply to some guy----
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by SamePendo
Take time to think of the right word.
Take time to come up with the right way to say something.
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uh...heck no?

yeah, i'd agree with GGTW here.

SP, your other tips are pretty good, but imo everyone should...

Take time and forget the above tip...don't think of the "right" word or canned material...you're not trying to impress her...she's gotta impress you...that's the way it works

...i'm afraid this tip would give newbies the wrong idea...heck, all new afcs should read http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80007

and sure, take time on your approaches...kino, hug, and kiss, whatever, but don't overanalyze stuff...live the moment for what it is
 
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Re: Re: Take your time.

Originally posted by h2o
uh...heck no?

yeah, i'd agree with GGTW here.

SP, your other tips are pretty good, but imo everyone should...

Take time and forget the above tip...don't think of the "right" word or canned material...you're not trying to impress her...she's gotta impress you...that's the way it works

...i'm afraid this tip would give newbies the wrong idea...heck, all new afcs should read http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80007

and sure, take time on your approaches...kino, hug, and kiss, whatever, but don't overanalyze stuff...live the moment for what it is
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I have to emphasize that you should do this calmly. Don't try this if you are still afraid of women. This is to show that, precisely, you aren't afraid.

Let's say, you don't remember the right word for the... moon roof (the kind of roof in cars that you can see through)... don't go too strong to say... "oh well.. the thingy that's dark in cars"... take your time, be calm.

Don't try this if you are still afraid of women.

Instead of giving people (mostly men) quick handshakes, give them a strong one, that lasts one second more.
 
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