"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Take your time.

Take time to think of the right word.
Take time to come up with the right way to say something.
Take time giving a handshake.
Take time giving eye contact.
Take time giving a hug, kiss.

Calmly, take some seconds more.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by SamePendo
Take time to think of the right word.
Take time to come up with the right way to say something.
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uh...heck no?

yeah, i'd agree with GGTW here.

SP, your other tips are pretty good, but imo everyone should...

Take time and forget the above tip...don't think of the "right" word or canned material...you're not trying to impress her...she's gotta impress you...that's the way it works

...i'm afraid this tip would give newbies the wrong idea...heck, all new afcs should read http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80007

and sure, take time on your approaches...kino, hug, and kiss, whatever, but don't overanalyze stuff...live the moment for what it is
 
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Re: Re: Take your time.

Originally posted by h2o
uh...heck no?

yeah, i'd agree with GGTW here.

SP, your other tips are pretty good, but imo everyone should...

Take time and forget the above tip...don't think of the "right" word or canned material...you're not trying to impress her...she's gotta impress you...that's the way it works

...i'm afraid this tip would give newbies the wrong idea...heck, all new afcs should read http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80007

and sure, take time on your approaches...kino, hug, and kiss, whatever, but don't overanalyze stuff...live the moment for what it is
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I have to emphasize that you should do this calmly. Don't try this if you are still afraid of women. This is to show that, precisely, you aren't afraid.

Let's say, you don't remember the right word for the... moon roof (the kind of roof in cars that you can see through)... don't go too strong to say... "oh well.. the thingy that's dark in cars"... take your time, be calm.

Don't try this if you are still afraid of women.

Instead of giving people (mostly men) quick handshakes, give them a strong one, that lasts one second more.
 
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