Take your time.

[SamePendo]

Take your time.

Take time to think of the right word.
Take time to come up with the right way to say something.
Take time giving a handshake.
Take time giving eye contact.
Take time giving a hug, kiss.

Calmly, take some seconds more.

///this was supposed to be a reply to some guy----

 

[h2o]

Originally posted by SamePendo
Take time to think of the right word.
Take time to come up with the right way to say something.

uh...heck no?

yeah, i'd agree with GGTW here.

SP, your other tips are pretty good, but imo everyone should...

Take time and forget the above tip...don't think of the "right" word or canned material...you're not trying to impress her...she's gotta impress you...that's the way it works

...i'm afraid this tip would give newbies the wrong idea...heck, all new afcs should read http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80007

and sure, take time on your approaches...kino, hug, and kiss, whatever, but don't overanalyze stuff...live the moment for what it is

 

[SamePendo]

Re: Re: Take your time.

Originally posted by h2o
uh...heck no?

yeah, i'd agree with GGTW here.

SP, your other tips are pretty good, but imo everyone should...

Take time and forget the above tip...don't think of the "right" word or canned material...you're not trying to impress her...she's gotta impress you...that's the way it works

...i'm afraid this tip would give newbies the wrong idea...heck, all new afcs should read http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80007

and sure, take time on your approaches...kino, hug, and kiss, whatever, but don't overanalyze stuff...live the moment for what it is

I have to emphasize that you should do this calmly. Don't try this if you are still afraid of women. This is to show that, precisely, you aren't afraid.

Let's say, you don't remember the right word for the... moon roof (the kind of roof in cars that you can see through)... don't go too strong to say... "oh well.. the thingy that's dark in cars"... take your time, be calm.

Don't try this if you are still afraid of women.

Instead of giving people (mostly men) quick handshakes, give them a strong one, that lasts one second more.