"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Take your pick - Sex or Relationship?

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Yesterday, I was talking to one of my friends (the same one from http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=77663) and an interesting question of debate came up:

Would you rather:
1.) Have amazing, unforgetable sex with the really hot girl you like once and that's it.

OR

2.) Have a one-year relationship with the really hot girl you like, but no sex - kissing and perhaps making out (just the kissing part, no feeling under the clothes) is the farthest you'd go.

Which would you choose and why?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anybody? :rolleyes:

Again, you can either have amazing, unforgetable sex with a girl you like once, or have a one-year relationship with the girl you like, but no sex (just read the original post).

So you can have one but not the other.
 
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Unforgettable sex, because by its very definition its unforgetable. Whereas I can always get another relationship.

Although, on second thoughts, if its unforgettable, it might pale all your other experiences.
 
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Daaamn that's a tough call. I went half a year with just making out and no feeling under clothing and it got stale, so I don't think I could do it for a full year. But on the other hand, I'm gaurenteed hot unforgetable sex once, only once? But on the other hand with the LTR would I be guarenteed sex after the 1 year? it's really definately a tough call.
 
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Originally posted by arcilitei34
Daaamn that's a tough call. I went half a year with just making out and no feeling under clothing and it got stale, so I don't think I could do it for a full year. But on the other hand, I'm gaurenteed hot unforgetable sex once, only once? But on the other hand with the LTR would I be guarenteed sex after the 1 year? it's really definately a tough call.
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Nothing is guarunteed with the relationship (underlined portion on the quote above) :eek:

This really is tough though - I can't even decide on it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not tough for me at all, I'd pick the sex (as long as I knew she wasn't carrying any STDs). That way, you get sex and the chance to do whatever the hell you feel like for the next year, be it more sex or find a relationship. Being stuck in a relationship and being limited to just kissing... defeats the point, doesn't it? That's called being friends.
 
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sex....i dont need no emotional bull**** from a girl without any payback.
 
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I wouldn't have a relationship in the sense that we are going out but I would actually be friends if she were amazingly fun to hang out with. 9 out of 10 times I would go for the sex. I wouldn't make out with someone I was friends with. I don't usually ever go the gf route.
 
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Unforgettable sex. Because the next weekend I am free to try and achieve this dream again.

If the girl doesn't make with the head fast, I'm out there anyways...I don't dig prudes.
 
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Originally posted by NYC Dude
Not tough for me at all, I'd pick the sex (as long as I knew she wasn't carrying any STDs). That way, you get sex and the chance to do whatever the hell you feel like for the next year, be it more sex or find a relationship. Being stuck in a relationship and being limited to just kissing... defeats the point, doesn't it? That's called being friends.
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Thats what i thought, do whatever the hell you want, but if the sex is unforgettable, everything else would pale. Currently im doing both of them. Long term girlfriend, who I am cheating on.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Definitely sex. Like mentioned, I can use that one year of my life to find another relationship.
 
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Originally posted by JSH
Thats what i thought, do whatever the hell you want, but if the sex is unforgettable, everything else would pale. Currently im doing both of them. Long term girlfriend, who I am cheating on.
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haha what a guy....love the honesty
 
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My memory is horrible, so the only way to make the sex unforgettable would be to video tape it.

And I've always wanted my own video tape of me nailing a hot chick.

Therefore, I choose sex. One wild night of hot, sweaty pig sex
 
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At this stage i dont get involved in a relationship UNTIL ive railed her. I would NEVER stay in a relationship for a year and not get any, i might as well put my balls in her purse.
 
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Originally posted by JSH
Thats what i thought, do whatever the hell you want, but if the sex is unforgettable, everything else would pale. Currently im doing both of them. Long term girlfriend, who I am cheating on.
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Oh, well that's nice.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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