"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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joekerr31

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http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp

guys go take this test. its a personality test. i tend to do it once a year just to see. for the past 12 years i've always come back as an INJF.

Description of the INJF
http://keirsey.com/personality/nfij.html

i'd say its a very close description of my personality in real life.

let's see what kind of personalities we've got particpating in our mature forum discussions - so take the test and let us know what personality type you are.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MR_PERFECT

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I've taken several of these tests through the years and I'm always an INTJ - the mastermind.
 

Colossus

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Haha...

I just took that exact same test a couple weeks ago. Same website. I had some of my friends take it as well. Very reliable test, IMO.

Im a solid INTJ.

To be objective about it I took several different variations of the test (myers-briggs) at different sites and got the same result, each time by a landslide.

The description of an INTJ is a pretty accurate description of the way I think and interact with others. Unfortunately, INTJs are notoriously bad at relationships, so i guess im screwed. :rolleyes: Oh, the life of a scientist.
 

Victory Unlimited

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Yo Troops!


I've taken this before, and now that I have taken it again the result is still the same:


Victory Unlimited is an INFJ...


...which is apparently around 2% of the population. Not quite sure how I "feel" about that though...;)
 

WhitePimp

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I am INTP apparently...fits me pretty well actually! :moon:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ace of Flames

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I am ENTP. Alexander the Great and Mercutio from Romeo and Juliet are some famous ENTPs. I feel like this is dead-on. I remember when we read Romeo and Juliet, Mercutio was my favorite character.

This is very interesting, the descriptions really describe me to a T. Thanks for posting this.
 

penkitten

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ESFP
"Where's the party?" ESFPs love people, excitement, telling stories and having fun. The spontaneous, impulsive nature of this type is almost always entertaining. And ESFPs love to entertain -- on stage, at work, and/or at home. Social gatherings are an energy boost to these "people" people.
Famous ESFPs:
Saint Mark (Christ's disciple)
Gracie Allen
Bob Hope
Eva Gabor
Willard Scott
Goldie Hawn
Kyle Petty
Arsenio Hall
Mary Lou Retton
Kathy Lee Gifford
Steve Irwin
Woody Harrelson (Cheers)
Fictional ESFPs:
Tim "The Toolman" Taylor(Home Improvement)
Cody (Step By Step)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ENFJ - 11% 25% 25% 11%, respectively. Its pretty much on the money, even has my profession of computer programmer listed as a recommendation :rockon:
 

ER!C L!VE

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Your Type is
ENTJ
Extraverted Intuitive Thinking Judging
Strength of the preferences %
56 12 25 33

Never fails..
 

amoka

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It is a very long test. It seems more like a survey than a personality test.
 

STR8UP

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No surprise....INTJ.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm an INTJ. I got around 22-25 for all of them except for T, which I got a 1. Does that mean I'm split between Feeling and Thinking?
 
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