"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp

guys go take this test. its a personality test. i tend to do it once a year just to see. for the past 12 years i've always come back as an INJF.

Description of the INJF
http://keirsey.com/personality/nfij.html

i'd say its a very close description of my personality in real life.

let's see what kind of personalities we've got particpating in our mature forum discussions - so take the test and let us know what personality type you are.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've taken several of these tests through the years and I'm always an INTJ - the mastermind.
 

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Haha...

I just took that exact same test a couple weeks ago. Same website. I had some of my friends take it as well. Very reliable test, IMO.

Im a solid INTJ.

To be objective about it I took several different variations of the test (myers-briggs) at different sites and got the same result, each time by a landslide.

The description of an INTJ is a pretty accurate description of the way I think and interact with others. Unfortunately, INTJs are notoriously bad at relationships, so i guess im screwed. :rolleyes: Oh, the life of a scientist.
 

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Yo Troops!


I've taken this before, and now that I have taken it again the result is still the same:


Victory Unlimited is an INFJ...


...which is apparently around 2% of the population. Not quite sure how I "feel" about that though...;)
 

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I am INTP apparently...fits me pretty well actually! :moon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I am ENTP. Alexander the Great and Mercutio from Romeo and Juliet are some famous ENTPs. I feel like this is dead-on. I remember when we read Romeo and Juliet, Mercutio was my favorite character.

This is very interesting, the descriptions really describe me to a T. Thanks for posting this.
 

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ESFP
"Where's the party?" ESFPs love people, excitement, telling stories and having fun. The spontaneous, impulsive nature of this type is almost always entertaining. And ESFPs love to entertain -- on stage, at work, and/or at home. Social gatherings are an energy boost to these "people" people.
Famous ESFPs:
Saint Mark (Christ's disciple)
Gracie Allen
Bob Hope
Eva Gabor
Willard Scott
Goldie Hawn
Kyle Petty
Arsenio Hall
Mary Lou Retton
Kathy Lee Gifford
Steve Irwin
Woody Harrelson (Cheers)
Fictional ESFPs:
Tim "The Toolman" Taylor(Home Improvement)
Cody (Step By Step)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ENFJ - 11% 25% 25% 11%, respectively. Its pretty much on the money, even has my profession of computer programmer listed as a recommendation :rockon:
 

ER!C L!VE

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Your Type is
ENTJ
Extraverted Intuitive Thinking Judging
Strength of the preferences %
56 12 25 33

Never fails..
 

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It is a very long test. It seems more like a survey than a personality test.
 

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No surprise....INTJ.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm an INTJ. I got around 22-25 for all of them except for T, which I got a 1. Does that mean I'm split between Feeling and Thinking?
 
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