"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bronxtal112

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Whats up guys. Quick situtation. Been dating this girl for a month. Conversations went down about relationship talk such as - trust. Even though I do not currently want a relationship with her yet, she assumed I did and kind of flat out told me - "I can’t get in a relationship right now". It now seems like she has took the control I once had with her. Should I try to get that back? or Just forget about it? Any advice would be appreciated!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bronxtal112 said:
Whats up guys. Quick situtation. Been dating this girl for a month. Conversations went down about relationship talk such as - trust. Even though I do not currently want a relationship with her yet, she assumed I did and kind of flat out told me - "I can’t get in a relationship right now". It now seems like she has took the control I once had with her. Should I try to get that back? or Just forget about it? Any advice would be appreciated!
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"I can't get into a relationship right now"

"Thats fine. Im comfortable with the way things are"
 
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You should have thought of something witty to say...

ie. - "Whoa whoa, relationship?? Oh man you're moving too fast! im not ready for a relationship!"

That line is good for role reversal because you would normally expect a woman to say something like "we're moving too fast." It will get your point across while still being a bit funny and goofy.

~WA
 
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