"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whats up guys. Quick situtation. Been dating this girl for a month. Conversations went down about relationship talk such as - trust. Even though I do not currently want a relationship with her yet, she assumed I did and kind of flat out told me - "I can’t get in a relationship right now". It now seems like she has took the control I once had with her. Should I try to get that back? or Just forget about it? Any advice would be appreciated!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bronxtal112 said:
Whats up guys. Quick situtation. Been dating this girl for a month. Conversations went down about relationship talk such as - trust. Even though I do not currently want a relationship with her yet, she assumed I did and kind of flat out told me - "I can’t get in a relationship right now". It now seems like she has took the control I once had with her. Should I try to get that back? or Just forget about it? Any advice would be appreciated!
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"I can't get into a relationship right now"

"Thats fine. Im comfortable with the way things are"
 
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You should have thought of something witty to say...

ie. - "Whoa whoa, relationship?? Oh man you're moving too fast! im not ready for a relationship!"

That line is good for role reversal because you would normally expect a woman to say something like "we're moving too fast." It will get your point across while still being a bit funny and goofy.

~WA
 
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