"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Background: I just broke up with my LTR of two years. It was a friendly breakup, so friendly that we agreed to be friends with benefits.

Anyway, we were having lunch yesterday and making out, rubbin each other etc. and we start talking about how exactly this f-buddy thing is going to work. We agree, first of all, that any threesomes we come up with must involve someone the other person doesn't know. So far so good.

But THEN:

ex-GF: I wonder how our knew boyfriends and girlfriends will take us being such gropey lovers all the time.
Leporello: Well, I guess we'll have to stop.
Ex-GF (putting her hand on my crotch) Oh, we'll have to stop...in public, anyway.

So... is this a good idea? If I understand it rightly, she's basically offering me unlimited pvssy as long as she's around, even if we're seeing other people. Can I just take this no worries or is this her way of not actually breaking up with me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Leporello said:
Background: I just broke up with my LTR of two years. It was a friendly breakup, so friendly that we agreed to be friends with benefits.

Anyway, we were having lunch yesterday and making out, rubbin each other etc. and we start talking about how exactly this f-buddy thing is going to work. We agree, first of all, that any threesomes we come up with must involve someone the other person doesn't know. So far so good.

But THEN:

ex-GF: I wonder how our knew boyfriends and girlfriends will take us being such gropey lovers all the time.
Leporello: Well, I guess we'll have to stop.
Ex-GF (putting her hand on my crotch) Oh, we'll have to stop...in public, anyway.

So... is this a good idea? If I understand it rightly, she's basically offering me unlimited pvssy as long as she's around, even if we're seeing other people. Can I just take this no worries or is this her way of not actually breaking up with me?
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What the hell are you worried about she is your fvck buddy, you are getting the best of both world. My advice would be to keep fvcking that pvssy **** other pvssys, and get her to have a threesome with you.
 
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Rather confusing. Assume things are over and don't give it a second thought.
 
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She sounds like she has things planned out for herself. A new guy and still gettin other penis on the side. Every woman's dream!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ThunderMaverick said:
You're going to get hurt. I'd break it off if I were you.
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I am? But we're broken up... what claim does she have on me?
 
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bad situation waiting to happen... unless your relationship was kindof open to begin with...

u think you wont be jealous when her new boyfriend tells her to not see or talk to you, and will make sure she doesnt?

i think you'll feel like ****... if its over, then its over.. when i broke up with my LTR of 1.5 years i told her straight up that she wont see or hear from me for a while.. and she still hasnt...

bro, there's never such thing as a good breakup unless you are both fed up of eachother and never want to see eachother agian, which from the sounds of it, thats not the case... all this public loving and "benefits" crap just reinforces the fact that you ARENT broken up...
 
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Wait to see how long this lasts when you tell her about a chick you're seeing or try to break off this whole 'f-buddy' thing with her because you want to enter a relationship with another girl.

Just you wait to see how she handles that. :)

It sounds like this chick wants to have her cake and eat it - and it's highly unlikely she will let you do the same.

I would assume this is all on her terms wether you care to admit it or not.

I imagine she wants to sleep with other guys but keep you there as her back-up or 'regular' - until she finds the right guy to be in her next 'relationship' - then you're out of there.

..And you're going along with it, willingly.

Try it out, but if it happens that sex isn't on your terms, or that she resents you or with-holds sex if you're seeing other girls.. you will know you have been suckered my friend.

The Muscly Jerk
 
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Leporello said:
I am? But we're broken up... what claim does she have on me?
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Your heart. That's what she has.

If it wasn't such a problem and you're totally detached and just want some va-china, why are you even asking us about it?
 
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