me and my girl have been dating for about 5 years now. everything seemed awesome till she hit 21. now she's acting like she's in charge, like everything she wants has be her way and if it's not than she's upset for a day or so. i'm not giving in or apologizing, but i'm trying to find that balance between letting her win at times. for example she wants to see me everyday (still even after 5 years) but i'm trying to change that and see her less so that the relationship doesn't become monotone and boring. everytime i go out with my friends and don't see she's upset. i know she's jelous because she always asks me who and where i'm going. i don't seem to know how to handle this since we're both used to seeing each other almost everyday and now i'm trying to change things a little. also another thing is that it seems like everytime i am the one initiating sex, at times i feel like i'm begging her to make love. what can i do to make her ask me for sex not other way around. i've already tried not getting phisical for about a week once and that didn't work. it seems like she could go on without sex for months or something. i just don't anymore. please help!!!, anybody!!!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Take Charge In a LTR
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