Take away there power..

[KingBeef]

http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/smitten/2009/08/readers-dilemma-im-dating-a-gu
Look at this. Proof of my point she's going nuts.

They've could of used a better looking pair....:crazy:

 

[Suspens]

You sound like a woman.

('_\')

You sound like a fag.

 

[Trump]

He's sexy. Works out, dresses nice, smells good, walks around like he has the biggest d*ck in the country;
But he doesn't seem to care about having sex with me. I've tried to tease him, sent him half naked pics and he just brushes it off. Barely acknowledges it.
- Mind Blown.

A paradox. To get them to want to screw you show little to no interest in sex. Give them a good time, invite them on dates but never attempt to have sex or kiss.
Watch her swoon.
It may take a little bit longer than usual but the sex will be better because you didn't have to harass her for it. I promise you she is going to damn near rape you if you are just a little patient. Play your cards right.
Don't mention sex, not even jokingly. Be totally outcome dependent.

Bro if you do this she won't swoon or rape you, you will end up in the friend zone because you were too shy to make a move. She will think you need a friend, not a girlfriend who you want to have sex with.

You go out with 4 dates and don't touch her, the other guy goes out with twice and gives her mind blowing sex at the end of the second date, who is she going fall in love with?

Sex is the bargaining chip they use. If you show no interest in it they can't play their game. It works I promise you. Just genuinely listen and give valuable feedback be mad cool and chill and they will jump your bones.

It also shows value. Sex must be very accessible to this guy since he doesn't act like a horny 14yr old. That is what most guys do. Damn near beg their way in their pants. So take away the need for sex before these dates. Rub one out before and after if you have to but never show any interest in sex.

If it comes up, change the subject. Just listen and genuinely get to know her. Sex will come

**mod please change there in subject to their before the grammar Nazis take me away.

Again bro you got to look at it from her point of view, if you don't mention sex, don't think about sex, don't go for sex, she will think you are gay/dumb/stupid feel rejected and tell you to go to hell. You got to be straight up, sex within hours of meeting or get out of my face.

If sex is the bargaining chip they use and you show no interest in it, why on earth would they ever give it up? They will just keep going out with you getting free meals and clothes without giving anything in return. It's as if money was the guys bargaining chip, and the girl he was going out with never wanted him to spend any money on her, then why would he ever spend any? He would just keep going out with her and milk it for what it's worth.

To not go for something you clearly want, on the off chance she may want it more, is a very risky strategy.

 

[MAYALL]

Bro if you do this she won't swoon or rape you, you will end up in the friend zone because you were too shy to make a move. She will think you need a friend, not a girlfriend who you want to have sex with.

If it's a guy she really wants she will do that. Men should always be aggressive in what they want, but this is just another way to deal with women. Seems like you have no experience with this.

You go out with 4 dates and don't touch her, the other guy goes out with twice and gives her mind blowing sex at the end of the second date, who is she going fall in love with?

If a women is attracted to a man, she will make the move if he doesn't touch her. I've been out on dates having a good time with the girl. I didn't even make a move yet and she was the first one to initiate the kiss and to start rubbing my crotch.

Again bro you got to look at it from her point of view, if you don't mention sex, don't think about sex, don't go for sex, she will think you are gay/dumb/stupid feel rejected and tell you to go to hell. You got to be straight up, sex within hours of meeting or get out of my face.

If a woman is attracted to a man, she won't tell him to go to hell. The woman will initiate sex if he doesn't.

If sex is the bargaining chip they use and you show no interest in it, why on earth would they ever give it up? They will just keep going out with you getting free meals and clothes without giving anything in return. It's as if money was the guys bargaining chip, and the girl he was going out with never wanted him to spend any money on her, then why would he ever spend any? He would just keep going out with her and milk it for what it's worth.

The man shouldn't be giving her expensive free meals or clothes. Why would you do that? Women want to be desired and wanted by men they are attracted to. If the man isn't showing that desire, women do everything possible in order to get that to happen.

 

[Igetit!]

Bro if you do this she won't swoon or rape you, you will end up in the friend zone because you were too shy to make a move. She will think you need a friend, not a girlfriend who you want to have sex with.

Yep....that's what I tried to tell the OP (Cola). This is what I said yesterday.....

This sounds good and all,but if you never show ANY INTEREST,starting from date 1 to at least date 4 or 5,you'll usually run a greater risk of getting friendzoned,making her think you're not interested in her,or her questioning your sexuality than making her "swoon" and wanting to tear your clothes off.

Said that yesterday.

Again bro you got to look at it from her point of view, if you don't mention sex, don't think about sex, don't go for sex, she will think you are gay/dumb/stupid feel rejected and tell you to go to hell.

Yep,exactly right. Well....maybe except for the "go to hell" part,but other than that,I 100% agree.


And I'll tell you another thing.....

The OP,he UNWITTINGLY is proving our point. You may not realize it Cola,but that link you gave...it 100% matches what we've all said here.....WORD for WORD.


I and Trump both say that if you have multiple dates with a girl,like 4 to 5...maybe even more and you NEVER SHOW sexual interest,that the girl will either think you're not interested/attracted to her,she'll think you only want to be friends (friendzone),or question your sexuality (she'll think you're gay).

That's what WE say.

The woman in that link you provided.......reached out for help cause she was confused over the guy not trying anything with her.

Now,WORD FOR WORD,this is the response she got.........from ANOTHER woman.

Here's my answer:

Hmm, this is a tough one! If the guy you're dating isn't making a move, there could be a few reasons:
a) He's super shy.
b) He's uncomfortable about his body.

c) He's gay.
d) He's not attracted to you.

e) Something else that we haven't thought of.

If he's gay or not attracted to you, there's nothing you can do about it (other than be his best friend).

Copy and pasted straight from the link YOU PROVIDED Cola.


It's one thing for us guys to guess and speculate about how not showing interest might affect a woman,but those words came straight from the women THEMSELVES.