"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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rakishness

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Women take advantage of our irrational obssession with LOOKS.You see... women know what men VALUE. Does that make them evil or manipulative? NO!!! They like men and want men and know how to get them...... MANY OF THEM.

On the the other hand.....many of guys seemed CONFUSED. Instead of discussing what women VALUE. We come on this forum and start discussing manuevers and tricks. LOL. Instead of discussing certain behaviors that women value..... we start telling lies about how our "inner game" or "confidence" will get us the women we want.

You see.....though women have an advantage.....we also have an advantage. You see.....women NOT ONLY VALUE LOOKS....they also VALUE CERTAIN BEHAVIORS in a man.
You also have the advantage of approaching....because...."The person who consistently displays bold behavior will far out-perform the person who does not." So take ADVANTAGE of the current situation where women are so easily accessible everywhere.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Agreed.. there's way too much talk on the forums about phone number counts, approaching sets, strategies, etc. I've seen guys talk about strategies for paragraphs on end, yet they have no luck when it comes to women.

Get out there and take advantage.. there's no scheme or school that is going to improve you like magic. You must approach yourself and learn yourself.
 

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rakishness said:
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we start telling lies about how our "inner game" or "confidence" will get us the women we want.
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I agree with all but the above quote. It's not a lie. It's a behavior or pattern of behavior women respond to, not to mention behavior that is usually healthier psychologically. What we call it, or how we refer to it is irrelevant.

(Kind of off-topic)
To add, I pity the people who are miserable in their lives and think that a woman (or women, if you prefer) will come along and lift them out of their abyss.

Happiness is not found within others, happiness is found within yourself
 

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rakishness said:
On the the other hand.....many of guys seemed CONFUSED. Instead of discussing what women VALUE. We come on this forum and start discussing manuevers and tricks. LOL. Instead of discussing certain behaviors that women value..... we start telling lies about how our "inner game" or "confidence" will get us the women we want.
I understand where you're coming from with this, but most people need to start off small.

If we compare becoming a DJ with becoming the #1 Tennis player in the world. We all know what it takes... confidence, ball skills, fitness, tactics, etc. But you can't just talk about them and then expect to become world champ. You have to do the hard yards, learning about footwork for each type of shot, how high to throw the ball, body positioning, court skills, working out and running every day... in other words you are learning all the individual maneuvres and tricks.

After you have spent time practising all of these skills, you start to develop your own style, you realise what is good advice and what is crap.

It's exactly the same here, you practise all the little things, those maneuvres and techniques, until one day you realise that you have developed the behaviours that you believe women value and are working for you. Like most people who have been members here for a while, you'll realise that at least 50% of what you read is rubbish (and for you maybe even this).

Oh yeah... don't believe what behaviours women tell you they value. They don't have the faintest clue until you show it to them!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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