Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Take advantage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

rakishness

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Women take advantage of our irrational obssession with LOOKS.You see... women know what men VALUE. Does that make them evil or manipulative? NO!!! They like men and want men and know how to get them...... MANY OF THEM.

On the the other hand.....many of guys seemed CONFUSED. Instead of discussing what women VALUE. We come on this forum and start discussing manuevers and tricks. LOL. Instead of discussing certain behaviors that women value..... we start telling lies about how our "inner game" or "confidence" will get us the women we want.

You see.....though women have an advantage.....we also have an advantage. You see.....women NOT ONLY VALUE LOOKS....they also VALUE CERTAIN BEHAVIORS in a man.
You also have the advantage of approaching....because...."The person who consistently displays bold behavior will far out-perform the person who does not." So take ADVANTAGE of the current situation where women are so easily accessible everywhere.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Agreed.. there's way too much talk on the forums about phone number counts, approaching sets, strategies, etc. I've seen guys talk about strategies for paragraphs on end, yet they have no luck when it comes to women.

Get out there and take advantage.. there's no scheme or school that is going to improve you like magic. You must approach yourself and learn yourself.
 

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rakishness said:
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we start telling lies about how our "inner game" or "confidence" will get us the women we want.
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I agree with all but the above quote. It's not a lie. It's a behavior or pattern of behavior women respond to, not to mention behavior that is usually healthier psychologically. What we call it, or how we refer to it is irrelevant.

(Kind of off-topic)
To add, I pity the people who are miserable in their lives and think that a woman (or women, if you prefer) will come along and lift them out of their abyss.

Happiness is not found within others, happiness is found within yourself
 

Cremasta

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rakishness said:
On the the other hand.....many of guys seemed CONFUSED. Instead of discussing what women VALUE. We come on this forum and start discussing manuevers and tricks. LOL. Instead of discussing certain behaviors that women value..... we start telling lies about how our "inner game" or "confidence" will get us the women we want.
I understand where you're coming from with this, but most people need to start off small.

If we compare becoming a DJ with becoming the #1 Tennis player in the world. We all know what it takes... confidence, ball skills, fitness, tactics, etc. But you can't just talk about them and then expect to become world champ. You have to do the hard yards, learning about footwork for each type of shot, how high to throw the ball, body positioning, court skills, working out and running every day... in other words you are learning all the individual maneuvres and tricks.

After you have spent time practising all of these skills, you start to develop your own style, you realise what is good advice and what is crap.

It's exactly the same here, you practise all the little things, those maneuvres and techniques, until one day you realise that you have developed the behaviours that you believe women value and are working for you. Like most people who have been members here for a while, you'll realise that at least 50% of what you read is rubbish (and for you maybe even this).

Oh yeah... don't believe what behaviours women tell you they value. They don't have the faintest clue until you show it to them!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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