"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is a text exchange that happened just now actually.

I met this girl two weeks ago. I wrote a thread about her awhile back, she is the foreign girl. First night I met her got the k-close. I ran into again last weekend and we ended up fooling around more (almost had sex in my car but she was on her period). This time she gave me her digits. Didn't even have to ask.

Anyway, she hits me up today and immediately tells me she wants to "hang out" next week followed by calling me cute..

Scars: Well thank you! How does tuesday or thursday of next week sound? I got the house to myself. So we could talk about our feelings some more

Quickly followed by a "Hahahaha ;)"

The story behind that is last weekend when we were in my car we both agreed we wouldn't tell anyone what happened. So I jokingly said "if anyone asks, just tell them we sat and talked about our feelings and stuff", she laughed.

Girl: Oh id like that, lots. You're such a good talker baby. Both days work for me. You'd have to pick up. I'll tell you where I live later on..

It's so simple but SO effective. Notice how I kept the sexual tone, but never flat out said that we would have sex. But she knows it. I know it. It's going to happen.

Oh and as I'm writing this.. a sh!t test.

Scars: Okay, I can do that.

Girl: Better! You might get a kiss :]

Scars: Lol your funny:) i wish you were just here right now. I'd totally have you pinned to a wall and we'd be making out right now. Just saying.

Girl: Oh wow, that's kinda hot..

Another lesson. Notice how I completely dodge her test by not taking her seriously at all. Then follow it up by a this-is-how-it-goes frame.

Going good.

Should probably end this quick. Always end it on a high note!

Outtie.

-Scars
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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good job! tried to comment but ran out of posts. This is always a playful but effective way to letting them work themselves up. Obviously you were pretty straight forward here.

I remember my friend made a bet with a girl that had a crush on me that if the 76'ers won the game she would have to go over and give him a bj in 8th grade. She said no.

I asked her almost the same thing.

If the sixers win, you gotta come over my place.
hb:what will we do :)?
me: we'll think of something i'm sure.

she said okay and the sixers won haha but since i wasn't attracted to her i never followed up. I actually didn't pay attention to the game at all and was playing counter-strike/starcraft.
 

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Great. Not too hard to be a smooth talker through instant messenger though...good luck player.
 

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confident afc said:
Great. Not too hard to be a smooth talker through instant messenger though...good luck player.
Dude, don't hate on Scars, he knows what he's talking about. The concept he's talking about works just as well over text as in real life.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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joe henny

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You come off too playful in your messages you need to work on the romanticiism to really take her mind to ectasy, being playful like that can back fire. Otherwise good job
 

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joe henny said:
You come off too playful in your messages you need to work on the romanticiism to really take her mind to ectasy, being playful like that can back fire.
That's ridiculous.
 

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Scars said:
Oh and as I'm writing this.. a sh!t test.

Scars: Okay, I can do that.

Girl: Better! You might get a kiss :]
Scars: Lol your funny:) i wish you were just here right now. I'd totally have you pinned to a wall and we'd be making out right now. Just saying.

Girl: Oh wow, that's kinda hot..

Another lesson. Notice how I completely dodge her test by not taking her seriously at all. Then follow it up by a this-is-how-it-goes frame.

Going good.

Should probably end this quick. Always end it on a high note!

Outtie.

-Scars
that wasn't a sh!t-test....

that was a girl telling you she wants to make-out with you.

Scars said:
It's so simple but SO effective. Notice how I kept the sexual tone, but never flat out said that we would have sex. But she knows it. I know it. It's going to happen
.

you are just mentioning what has been said over and over again on this board.
 

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It seems as if she is into you already, it should be a smooth sailing, captain.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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