"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Scars

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This is a text exchange that happened just now actually.

I met this girl two weeks ago. I wrote a thread about her awhile back, she is the foreign girl. First night I met her got the k-close. I ran into again last weekend and we ended up fooling around more (almost had sex in my car but she was on her period). This time she gave me her digits. Didn't even have to ask.

Anyway, she hits me up today and immediately tells me she wants to "hang out" next week followed by calling me cute..

Scars: Well thank you! How does tuesday or thursday of next week sound? I got the house to myself. So we could talk about our feelings some more

Quickly followed by a "Hahahaha ;)"

The story behind that is last weekend when we were in my car we both agreed we wouldn't tell anyone what happened. So I jokingly said "if anyone asks, just tell them we sat and talked about our feelings and stuff", she laughed.

Girl: Oh id like that, lots. You're such a good talker baby. Both days work for me. You'd have to pick up. I'll tell you where I live later on..

It's so simple but SO effective. Notice how I kept the sexual tone, but never flat out said that we would have sex. But she knows it. I know it. It's going to happen.

Oh and as I'm writing this.. a sh!t test.

Scars: Okay, I can do that.

Girl: Better! You might get a kiss :]

Scars: Lol your funny:) i wish you were just here right now. I'd totally have you pinned to a wall and we'd be making out right now. Just saying.

Girl: Oh wow, that's kinda hot..

Another lesson. Notice how I completely dodge her test by not taking her seriously at all. Then follow it up by a this-is-how-it-goes frame.

Going good.

Should probably end this quick. Always end it on a high note!

Outtie.

-Scars
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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good job! tried to comment but ran out of posts. This is always a playful but effective way to letting them work themselves up. Obviously you were pretty straight forward here.

I remember my friend made a bet with a girl that had a crush on me that if the 76'ers won the game she would have to go over and give him a bj in 8th grade. She said no.

I asked her almost the same thing.

If the sixers win, you gotta come over my place.
hb:what will we do :)?
me: we'll think of something i'm sure.

she said okay and the sixers won haha but since i wasn't attracted to her i never followed up. I actually didn't pay attention to the game at all and was playing counter-strike/starcraft.
 

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Great. Not too hard to be a smooth talker through instant messenger though...good luck player.
 

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confident afc said:
Great. Not too hard to be a smooth talker through instant messenger though...good luck player.
Dude, don't hate on Scars, he knows what he's talking about. The concept he's talking about works just as well over text as in real life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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joe henny

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You come off too playful in your messages you need to work on the romanticiism to really take her mind to ectasy, being playful like that can back fire. Otherwise good job
 

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joe henny said:
You come off too playful in your messages you need to work on the romanticiism to really take her mind to ectasy, being playful like that can back fire.
That's ridiculous.
 

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Scars said:
Oh and as I'm writing this.. a sh!t test.

Scars: Okay, I can do that.

Girl: Better! You might get a kiss :]
Scars: Lol your funny:) i wish you were just here right now. I'd totally have you pinned to a wall and we'd be making out right now. Just saying.

Girl: Oh wow, that's kinda hot..

Another lesson. Notice how I completely dodge her test by not taking her seriously at all. Then follow it up by a this-is-how-it-goes frame.

Going good.

Should probably end this quick. Always end it on a high note!

Outtie.

-Scars
that wasn't a sh!t-test....

that was a girl telling you she wants to make-out with you.

Scars said:
It's so simple but SO effective. Notice how I kept the sexual tone, but never flat out said that we would have sex. But she knows it. I know it. It's going to happen
.

you are just mentioning what has been said over and over again on this board.
 

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PapiChulo

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It seems as if she is into you already, it should be a smooth sailing, captain.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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