"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Take a Date or not?

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Ok just to make Doc happy (scense i have time now to acually type everythign about this chick). There is this girl in my 4th period shes in 10th im in 12th. She used to not even talk to me but ive been using basic DJ stuff eye contact , smiles. then last thursday we had to work together for a group thing so started talking to her made jokes i can tell shes intrested just the way she looks at me and stuff. (she pretty much lights up just when i walk over to her now). Was gunna take her out on weekends but thats when she works fridays right after school she works till closing, saterdays she works from 11 in the morning till close. and sunday she goes to church then to work till CLOSE. So she doesnt have any free time on teh weekend unless she gets a day off. But she told me i should come see her this weekend, I was plan on it but was wondering if it would be better for me to bring another chick wit me or just like me or me and a guy friend. Shes girl thats pretty confident in herself like she knows she looks good. Shes kind of perky pretty kind of girl and shes like nice but also a ***** too but thats just really to other girls that shes a ***** to. So was just wondering if it would be a good idea to bring a girl when i go saterday or not.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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djweses89 said:
dont comment if your to dumb to understand it
yo im throwing game on this chick and she always works on weekends she told me to come see her now should i bring another girl wit me kind of make her jealous or would that just upset her.
One. Stop talking like you're from Compton.
Two. What game?
Three. We don't know her, how the fvck are we supposed to know if it'd upset her.
Four. You must be spitting mad game, teach me!!! (seeing how you can only see her on the weekend at HER WORK)
Five. You're a Noob. Read the sticky about how to post and post a proper question, like everyone else here.
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Now ya happy i put alot more about the whole situation so re-read it im not gunna argue wit ya because its pointless so yea
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok just to make Doc happy (scense i have time now to acually type everythign about this chick). There is this girl in my 4th period shes in 10th im in 12th. She used to not even talk to me but ive been using basic DJ stuff eye contact , smiles. then last thursday we had to work together for a group thing so started talking to her made jokes i can tell shes intrested just the way she looks at me and stuff. (she pretty much lights up just when i walk over to her now). Was gunna take her out on weekends but thats when she works fridays right after school she works till closing, saterdays she works from 11 in the morning till close. and sunday she goes to church then to work till CLOSE. So she doesnt have any free time on teh weekend unless she gets a day off. But she told me i should come see her this weekend, I was plan on it but was wondering if it would be better for me to bring another chick wit me or just like me or me and a guy friend. Shes girl thats pretty confident in herself like she knows she looks good. Shes kind of perky pretty kind of girl and shes like nice but also a ***** too but thats just really to other girls that shes a ***** to. So was just wondering if it would be a good idea to bring a girl when i go saterday or not.
Thank you for listening. I can now offer a response to a worthy question.

Multipe Routes...
- Why not a weekday? Nothing's wrong with that.
- What about after she gets off work?
- If you're going to see her, do it along with something you need to get done. This should be a staple of life, don't go out of your way for her, but intergrate her into your lifestyle. I wouldn't take a hour out of my time for a girl I can't see myself having any positive outcome with, and you shouldn't either.
- As for coming with another girl or a bro, they act like CBs. Especially to something like this, she's seems like a nice girl, interested and everything. Why I say to not bring a girl along to 'insipre jealousy', because that's what you'd think would happen (by reading), but reality is, she'll be doing the 'what's up with him, he seemed so conceited today' questions, not the 'oh...she's hot, I better step up my game. That's reality.

As for a bro...he has to know his sh!t. Not to step in-between both of you, or act like a anchor that hovers....and plus, it has that off chance of creating unnecessary competation for yourself if she thinks he's cool too.

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haha well i def know im not goin out my way for her cus there are like 2 other girls that i also that are intresting in me right now but shes a lil more mature than those two and shes not as up tight about sexual things as the other 2
 

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The thing is, going to just see her...may not be worthwhile, especially if things suck.

But if you intergrate it with 'oh, I have to do this and that while I'm there, and I guess I can drop by her', then there. 100% not a wasted trip.
 

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haha yea i hear ya i probley end up seeing a movie or go shopping sometime this weekend even if i do head that way so. Anywhere I go I go and do more than one thing never just go somewhere for one reason unless its fridaynight football or work.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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