"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok just to make Doc happy (scense i have time now to acually type everythign about this chick). There is this girl in my 4th period shes in 10th im in 12th. She used to not even talk to me but ive been using basic DJ stuff eye contact , smiles. then last thursday we had to work together for a group thing so started talking to her made jokes i can tell shes intrested just the way she looks at me and stuff. (she pretty much lights up just when i walk over to her now). Was gunna take her out on weekends but thats when she works fridays right after school she works till closing, saterdays she works from 11 in the morning till close. and sunday she goes to church then to work till CLOSE. So she doesnt have any free time on teh weekend unless she gets a day off. But she told me i should come see her this weekend, I was plan on it but was wondering if it would be better for me to bring another chick wit me or just like me or me and a guy friend. Shes girl thats pretty confident in herself like she knows she looks good. Shes kind of perky pretty kind of girl and shes like nice but also a ***** too but thats just really to other girls that shes a ***** to. So was just wondering if it would be a good idea to bring a girl when i go saterday or not.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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djweses89 said:
dont comment if your to dumb to understand it
yo im throwing game on this chick and she always works on weekends she told me to come see her now should i bring another girl wit me kind of make her jealous or would that just upset her.
One. Stop talking like you're from Compton.
Two. What game?
Three. We don't know her, how the fvck are we supposed to know if it'd upset her.
Four. You must be spitting mad game, teach me!!! (seeing how you can only see her on the weekend at HER WORK)
Five. You're a Noob. Read the sticky about how to post and post a proper question, like everyone else here.
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Now ya happy i put alot more about the whole situation so re-read it im not gunna argue wit ya because its pointless so yea
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok just to make Doc happy (scense i have time now to acually type everythign about this chick). There is this girl in my 4th period shes in 10th im in 12th. She used to not even talk to me but ive been using basic DJ stuff eye contact , smiles. then last thursday we had to work together for a group thing so started talking to her made jokes i can tell shes intrested just the way she looks at me and stuff. (she pretty much lights up just when i walk over to her now). Was gunna take her out on weekends but thats when she works fridays right after school she works till closing, saterdays she works from 11 in the morning till close. and sunday she goes to church then to work till CLOSE. So she doesnt have any free time on teh weekend unless she gets a day off. But she told me i should come see her this weekend, I was plan on it but was wondering if it would be better for me to bring another chick wit me or just like me or me and a guy friend. Shes girl thats pretty confident in herself like she knows she looks good. Shes kind of perky pretty kind of girl and shes like nice but also a ***** too but thats just really to other girls that shes a ***** to. So was just wondering if it would be a good idea to bring a girl when i go saterday or not.
Thank you for listening. I can now offer a response to a worthy question.

Multipe Routes...
- Why not a weekday? Nothing's wrong with that.
- What about after she gets off work?
- If you're going to see her, do it along with something you need to get done. This should be a staple of life, don't go out of your way for her, but intergrate her into your lifestyle. I wouldn't take a hour out of my time for a girl I can't see myself having any positive outcome with, and you shouldn't either.
- As for coming with another girl or a bro, they act like CBs. Especially to something like this, she's seems like a nice girl, interested and everything. Why I say to not bring a girl along to 'insipre jealousy', because that's what you'd think would happen (by reading), but reality is, she'll be doing the 'what's up with him, he seemed so conceited today' questions, not the 'oh...she's hot, I better step up my game. That's reality.

As for a bro...he has to know his sh!t. Not to step in-between both of you, or act like a anchor that hovers....and plus, it has that off chance of creating unnecessary competation for yourself if she thinks he's cool too.

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haha well i def know im not goin out my way for her cus there are like 2 other girls that i also that are intresting in me right now but shes a lil more mature than those two and shes not as up tight about sexual things as the other 2
 

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The thing is, going to just see her...may not be worthwhile, especially if things suck.

But if you intergrate it with 'oh, I have to do this and that while I'm there, and I guess I can drop by her', then there. 100% not a wasted trip.
 

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haha yea i hear ya i probley end up seeing a movie or go shopping sometime this weekend even if i do head that way so. Anywhere I go I go and do more than one thing never just go somewhere for one reason unless its fridaynight football or work.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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