Tactics Aws/manipulators employ to deceive people!

[Blue Phoenix]

Features of an attention seeker.

They can be the baby type, the me-monkey type or both.

The Baby:

This gal is unbelievably immature. While she has a freshness and vitality about her, she acts like a spoiled brat much of the time, and her moments of lucidity are few and far in between. It’s easy to be enamored of her playful behavior – at first.
- She is very self-centered
- Emotionally under-developed. She cries and throws tantrums, often breaking things she owns.
- Insecure
- Needs a lot of attention. Demonstrates a lot of “Look at me!” behavior
- Poor decision-making. Spends all her discretionary income.
- Careless and very forgetful
- Is messy and disorganized at home
- Impulsive behavior

The Me-monkey:

This woman is truly in love with herself and believes that all men should worship her. If you don’t worship her, she will be challenged, but only until she realizes you won’t give her what she wants – blood sacrifices or a temple erected to her. Once that realization hits her, you’re out.
- She’s typically gorgeous – and she knows it
- She pampers herself to the extreme
- She doesn’t care at all about what’s going on with you and your life
- Talks incessantly about herself and her friends
- Superficial – to the extreme. Obsessed with image
- Typically has poor relations with her mother
- Can only function when she’s the center of attention and the focus

From the dating black book.

Some people may have these features to some degree. It will depend on you if you're willing to put up with it or not.

Now my compilation is complete!

 

[DeathDealer]

this is a very good post. There are a lot of girls like this, and a lot of guys who are like this too. Guess what, they date each other. Infact, most artists (musicians, painters) are pretty psychotic if you ask me. The best bet is to find someone who is a recovering psychotic and is trying to clean her ways or just someone who is almost emotionally stable.

 

[Fatality]

Every single girl in the world has some of the qualities listed in this thread.

 

[Big Bad Wolf]

Enlightenment

 

[Fenderules]

yeah a lotta ppl like that do these tactics are pretty insecure. I dont deal with it. I just say screw it

 

[Ricky]

What does AW or AWS stand for?

 

[Abbott]

Originally posted by Ricky
What does AW or AWS stand for?

I believe that . . .

AW = Attention Whore

and

AWs is just the plural form of it.


Ben

 

[ogre]

THANK YOU BLUE PHOENIX

THANK YOU BLUE PHOENIX!!!

for posting this link:
http://www.bullyonline.org/

what an excellent resource! I've been a bullied all my life. at school, at work, by women, even by my own family.

http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/bully.htm#Why

is practically my life story, line-by-line. Maybe I should focus on this problem before trying to be DJ. no wonder I can't attract a babe. No babe wants to date a victim.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Blue, great insight - I don't know how I missed this post back in August - I must have been in a coma!

The only thing I would change in your analysis and discovery is that these traits of manipulation and deceit should not be attributed to "immaturity" or "insecurity", rather they are the fruits of SELFISHNESS and self importance, false pride and arrogance!

 

[catch]

very edjucating.. thanks

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover

The only thing I would change in your analysis and discovery is that these traits of manipulation and deceit should not be attributed to "immaturity" or "insecurity", rather they are the fruits of SELFISHNESS and self importance, false pride and arrogance!

Maybe both?

PRL I don´t know about you, but all people I dealt with and that had those traits mentioned were immature and insecure. No one is equal, maybe your case was different.

I believe that selfishness is related to immaturity. Mature people are giving and respect the others, they´re not "me monkeys"!

 

[DJDamage]

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover

The only thing I would change in your analysis and discovery is that these traits of manipulation and deceit should not be attributed to "immaturity" or "insecurity", rather they are the fruits of SELFISHNESS and self importance, false pride and arrogance!
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PRL I don´t know about you, but all people I dealt with and that had those traits mentioned were immature and insecure. No one is equal, maybe your case was different.

Actually Selfishness derives from immaturity. I have learned that because Attension Wh0res often act and behave like a child they often do not take RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR ACTIONS like an adult would. Yet when bad things happen to them they end up being and actling like the perfect victim.

They are too concerned about their own life and precious fregile emotions then to worry about how their bad behaviour will affect others. Empathy towards others does not EXIST. When the relationship is over because she moved on to another guy she will walk out of your life all happy like a child while not feeling slightly bad or guilty for her actions. NO EMPATHY, NO RESPONSIBILTY, NO PROBLEM!

 

[Spike_the_Dragon]

I just came out of a really long relationship, and it ended badly... so I'm kinda becomming a jerk again.

But yeah, I get it. Read my posts from the last year or so.

 

[Swede54]

Originally posted by rgeere
I tend to run into the drama queen and saviour types alot; sometimes even a girl with a mixture of the two.

Thanks for posting this.....

you think thats bad... the ex i loved had ALL of them.

 

[Stackthestyles]

bump

 

[Hydrak]

I read the list and my mother fits the description of every one of them. :crackup:

 

[Megaman XIV]

Many, many b**ches follow Briffault's Law & Hypergamy.