Tables turned

[Brosy]

Where do you stand with your personal morals when, after some self improvement, girls who previously acted like you didn't exist suddenly want your attention?

I know stock answer will be "who cares, bang 'em", but what about niggling fact that you weren't good enough for them to even acknowledge x months ago? anyone else have the temptation to tell them to get the f!*k out of your face now they've shown how stuck-up and superficial they are?

Who's been here and which way did you go?

 

[Sneevox]

Where do you stand with your personal morals when, after some self improvement, girls who previously acted like you didn't exist suddenly want your attention?

I know stock answer will be "who cares, bang 'em", but what about niggling fact that you weren't good enough for them to even acknowledge x months ago? anyone else have the temptation to tell them to get the f!*k out of your face now they've shown how stuck-up and superficial they are?

Who's been here and which way did you go?

I wouldn't date them. I wouldn't date anybody. Truth is, it all depends on what you can offer them.
Human beings are selfish creatures, so I can't see myself with anybody until I get bored of doing things alone, which is gonna take awhile.

Do self improvement to improve yourself, not to get another person's attention.

To answer your question, I've been there.
My self improvement was better social skills.
I banged girls. That's what I did. All of this self improvement led me to a new life philosophy. If your thinking hasn't changed one bit and you've tried to do self improvement in every area, you're doing something wrong.
I'm not gonna tell you what to do. It's your decision. If I tell you, YOU'RE not doing the improvement or expanding your own self awareness.

Think on this. What do YOU think is the best thing to do?

 

[plate's_empty]

Where do you stand with your personal morals when, after some self improvement, girls who previously acted like you didn't exist suddenly want your attention?

I know stock answer will be "who cares, bang 'em", but what about niggling fact that you weren't good enough for them to even acknowledge x months ago? anyone else have the temptation to tell them to get the f!*k out of your face now they've shown how stuck-up and superficial they are?

Who's been here and which way did you go?

It's the same thing with us guys. Girl starts going to the gym, loses 20 lbs, gets fake boobs.....

 

[Brosy]

Sneevox the thing I do is just look at them trying to talk to me with the "are you lost?" face. After all, now you know these girls aren't cripplingly shy, they literally ignore people they aren't attracted to. These people used to be you, they are your friends, colleagues, people you know are worth the time of day because you aren't a shallow f!*k.

I can't speak for all men, but I am perfectly pleasant to said girl in plates_empty's post before the boob/gym transformation.

 

[Sneevox]

Sneevox the thing I do is just look at them trying to talk to me with the "are you lost?" face. After all, now you know these girls aren't cripplingly shy, they literally ignore people they aren't attracted to. These people used to be you, they are your friends, colleagues, people you know are worth the time of day because you aren't a shallow f!*k.

I can't speak for all men, but I am perfectly pleasant to said girl in plates_empty's post before the boob/gym transformation.

Makes sense. I do find it humorous when people are upset that you don't find them attractive if they look like they put zero effort into their looks at almost all times.
Had a girl like that recently.
All of the beta chumps in my cast are like in love with her, though. It's hilarious.

-sigh- no attractive women.
funny thing, I've asked a lot of guys, and apparently the most attractive girl in the cast to them is this chick named Shannon. Shannon is maybe like a 5 (no tits, no ass, skinny with some flab, about 5'4", brunette, very tan) and she dresses nicely all the time... but she's 25 years old. I can't help but think it's no coincidence that, according to the SMV chart, she's in her sexual prime right now.

Funny how things work, though. Men age like wine, women age like fruit.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

I wouldn't give a woman who rejected me in the past a second thought.