Alright, so I meet this chick through a good friend of mine and we spend 5 or 6 drunken nights together after the bar over the next month. At this point I'm certain she really digs me, a couple of her friends made sure I knew that much.
I don't like rushing into anything that resembles serious because I'm a picky dude and usually just get fed up with chicks if I see too much of them, so I didn't initiate any sort of talks about where the thing was going and what she wanted to do with it.
After a couple weeks I decide "OK, this girl is cool as hell - what the fvck, I'll give it a shot with her." So I increase the weekly call count to 2 max - always on a bar night, and mention that we should get together and watch a movie or something soon. Around this point her calls drop off, and the next week when I see her at the bar she straight up jets inside without a word to me. I call her on it the next day and she says she just 'needs her space', and can't have a boyfriend because she sucks at relationships and always pussies out. "We should just be friends for awhile". I let her know that I'm not into serious relationsips and tell her she knows where to find me.
How did the tables turn like this? I thought I was playing things fairly well, and DEFINITELY wasn't giving her too much attention. I can't decide if she thought I was just not interested in her and wanted out to avoid being hurt, or if she actually lost interest in me. Is this worth pursuing in any way?
I don't like rushing into anything that resembles serious because I'm a picky dude and usually just get fed up with chicks if I see too much of them, so I didn't initiate any sort of talks about where the thing was going and what she wanted to do with it.
After a couple weeks I decide "OK, this girl is cool as hell - what the fvck, I'll give it a shot with her." So I increase the weekly call count to 2 max - always on a bar night, and mention that we should get together and watch a movie or something soon. Around this point her calls drop off, and the next week when I see her at the bar she straight up jets inside without a word to me. I call her on it the next day and she says she just 'needs her space', and can't have a boyfriend because she sucks at relationships and always pussies out. "We should just be friends for awhile". I let her know that I'm not into serious relationsips and tell her she knows where to find me.
How did the tables turn like this? I thought I was playing things fairly well, and DEFINITELY wasn't giving her too much attention. I can't decide if she thought I was just not interested in her and wanted out to avoid being hurt, or if she actually lost interest in me. Is this worth pursuing in any way?