Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
http://ripquoteoftheday.blogspot.com/2009/03/quote-of-day-24th-march-2009.html said:My opinion about barbell rows is as follows: **** barbell rows. Really. **** them.
Stop wasting time worrying about barbell rows and get your deadlift up to 500.
By then you'll have your own opinion and you won't have to worry about mine.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm using "Option A" from where to start thread... It may may modified a bit from the original Starting Strength routine. Ruckus, should I eliminate them and focus on wide grip pulls instead??mrRuckus said:Rippetoe's routine doesn't have rows in it as he views them as an accessory exercise for intermediates, and even then he doesn't have people do them the way people do them usually as he promotes the use of hip drive for them and starting from the ground.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Wouldn't want to travel out of your comfort zone or anything difficult like that.Flyer said:cleans/powercleans are harder to learn/do than rows in general..
the opposite of these statements is true...Flyer said:cleans/powercleans are harder to learn/do than rows in general.. I havnt been to bb.com but it sounds like it's for bodybuilders.
back to the op. crossfit.com has good videos which shows you how to learn cleans.