check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
why not get off of the consol and in to the real world. You will find out that the real world has a lot higher screen resoloution then your video games 
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
...says the guy who has almost 1000 posts here in 6 months.Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
why not get off of the consol and in to the real world. You will find out that the real world has a lot higher screen resoloution then your video games![]()
firstly if thats so much then half of it (yours) is still a lot and 5-6 posts a day is not all that time consuming when you think about it.Originally posted by Interpol
...says the guy who has almost 1000 posts here in 6 months.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I was just pointing out that people can have hobbies like videogames/surfing the internet/whatever without it consuming their entire lives...Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
firstly if thats so much then half of it (yours) is still a lot and 5-6 posts a day is not all that time consuming when you think about it.
I know people whos whole life is computer games, some one form school i spoke to his hobby is computer games he says he plays 3-5hours a night on the computer, this post toom me a minute or 2 to write 5-6 posts would mean 10 minutes a day on sosuave, so ok its a bit more then that but its still not all that much. (although i could not tell you how much because i multi task, switch form 1 thing to another, like right now apart from this, msn and looking up things of intrest on the internet such as researching the tsunami i am also fixing my bike.)
well yeah they can, i play on my PS2 from time to time, i just found it horryfying when someone i know siad they spend 5 hours a night on computer games.Originally posted by Interpol
I was just pointing out that people can have hobbies like videogames/surfing the internet/whatever without it consuming their entire lives...
Somewhat, but Quake III requires a higher framerate IMO.Originally posted by Ziroh
Dont you know they both require about the same system?![]()
If you talked to this person about two years ago that was meOriginally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
well yeah they can, i play on my PS2 from time to time, i just found it horryfying when someone i know siad they spend 5 hours a night on computer games.
Originally posted by Interpol
...says the guy who has almost 1000 posts here in 6 months.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.