check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
why not get off of the consol and in to the real world. You will find out that the real world has a lot higher screen resoloution then your video games 
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
...says the guy who has almost 1000 posts here in 6 months.Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
why not get off of the consol and in to the real world. You will find out that the real world has a lot higher screen resoloution then your video games![]()
firstly if thats so much then half of it (yours) is still a lot and 5-6 posts a day is not all that time consuming when you think about it.Originally posted by Interpol
...says the guy who has almost 1000 posts here in 6 months.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I was just pointing out that people can have hobbies like videogames/surfing the internet/whatever without it consuming their entire lives...Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
firstly if thats so much then half of it (yours) is still a lot and 5-6 posts a day is not all that time consuming when you think about it.
I know people whos whole life is computer games, some one form school i spoke to his hobby is computer games he says he plays 3-5hours a night on the computer, this post toom me a minute or 2 to write 5-6 posts would mean 10 minutes a day on sosuave, so ok its a bit more then that but its still not all that much. (although i could not tell you how much because i multi task, switch form 1 thing to another, like right now apart from this, msn and looking up things of intrest on the internet such as researching the tsunami i am also fixing my bike.)
well yeah they can, i play on my PS2 from time to time, i just found it horryfying when someone i know siad they spend 5 hours a night on computer games.Originally posted by Interpol
I was just pointing out that people can have hobbies like videogames/surfing the internet/whatever without it consuming their entire lives...
Somewhat, but Quake III requires a higher framerate IMO.Originally posted by Ziroh
Dont you know they both require about the same system?![]()
If you talked to this person about two years ago that was meOriginally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
well yeah they can, i play on my PS2 from time to time, i just found it horryfying when someone i know siad they spend 5 hours a night on computer games.
Originally posted by Interpol
...says the guy who has almost 1000 posts here in 6 months.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.