"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sympathysex........

Kineti[C]harm

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I was completely blown today when I talked with some good female friends. They actually said they had nothing against having sympathy sex with a guy aslong as it didn't mean anything for them (my friends that is)... This actually sort of blew me... I know a girl will have sex for many reasons but when one of them told me she'd would have fvcked and even said yes to be together with a guy we both know the other week when he was so down and she was single etc (and dumped him afterwards) I was like EHWTF? (She is not attracted to him either...)

Well just thought I'd share, no idea why.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The underlying theme here is that WOMEN WANT TO FVCK!!!

And they're finding more and more creative ways to justify it to their social conditioning.
 

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Nono this was not anyway to find ways to fvck. This girl gets as much as she wants and does as much as she want, she has NO problem getting mostly anything she wants. I know she isn't attracted to this dude she'd fvck him only because she felt sorry for him and THIS really made me go wtf.
 

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Whoah...if this girl can have anyone she wants, she's not going to fvck someone she doesn't find attractive, unless she's some kind of psycho-masochistic-nymphomaniac. There is SOMETHING about this guy she finds attractive if she's spreading for him.
 

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Was this strictly a hypothetical or did it actually happen with the guy?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe she finds other things about him attractive? (Personality, etc) so she could overlook the physical attraction thing enough for the sympathy sex? For me, physical attraction is not everything at all. I've never had "sympathy sex"... I think I'd have to see something in him, not just "he's sad"... but someone who is so nice and wonderful in so many ways ... but not physically or not someone I'd consider dating... but still a great guy... I'd consider it.

But then again I'm a dirty wh*re.
 

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No the thing is this is a friend of hers and he is inlove with her or wants her bad but she has no interest inn him but she would fvck him out of PURE sympathy for his feelings. She DOES love sex, she truely loves it.
 

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Come on people, it is not the first time you have heard of this, is it...

Whatever the reasons,

Women do sleep with guys because of their sympathy,

I really do not care if they enjoy it more or less,

In the end, sex is used as a means to satisfy one or two instincts in them..

Call it motherly,

Helpful,

Or just wanna fvck...

Dunno, do not care...

One principle: Do not beg for sex..

If you get it once, you will never get it again.

but then, we are not sorry asses are we, so why say this :)
 
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