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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

supernaut767

New Member

Aug 30, 2010

The old Sydney Lair no longer exists. We have migrated to a new site at www.sydney-lair.com Once your application is approved you'll have a lot of experienced guys to learn from, a thriving forum, regular social events and access to members you can wing with.

We are a totally non-commercial lair and committed to keeping it that way. We do this stuff because we love women and love seeing guys get good with them.

We are looking for motivated members, committed to getting better with women.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.