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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

supernaut767

New Member

Aug 30, 2010

The old Sydney Lair no longer exists. We have migrated to a new site at www.sydney-lair.com Once your application is approved you'll have a lot of experienced guys to learn from, a thriving forum, regular social events and access to members you can wing with.

We are a totally non-commercial lair and committed to keeping it that way. We do this stuff because we love women and love seeing guys get good with them.

We are looking for motivated members, committed to getting better with women.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.