"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Swine flu-any here have it?

cordoncordon

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I did. From the middle of July (around the 16th) and and I am just now getting over it completely. For two weeks I had a dry cough, sore throat, headaches, diarhea, severe muscle soreness, terrible fever, and I was delirious much of the time. I would go to bed, wake up in a pool of sweat, then get super cold, after having the craziest dreams I can ever remember. And this went on for two weeks straight! After the fever finally went away, along with those other symptoms I mentioned, the head congestion and lung congestion started up full force. Still have a slight sore throat even today. Its basically like the regular flu x ten. Mainly because of the fever, chills, hot flashes, and delirium.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I had flu-like symptoms set in on Sunday night (coughing, nausea, sweating, chills and body aches). The fever was gone this morning when I woke up, but I'm still weak and the coughing has really stepped it up. I don't know if it was swine-flu or the regular flu. Who cares? They both can kill you.
 

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I'm growing more paranoid of this everyday. It's hitting the south pretty bad. For the last few weeks almost everyday I hear from another friend who has been diagnosed with the flu
 

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If it lasted 2 weeks are you sure it's the flu? The acute flu symptoms don't usually last more than several days at most, although the cough may linger. I don't know I'm not a doctor. Did you go to the hospital and have it confirmed as swine flu?

Mpimpin, don't let all this hype make you paranoid. I think it's irresponsible how the news is handling this. From what I've heard, the swine flu is no worse than the regular flu. I think it's being hyped because the swine flu killed a lot of people back during WW I, but people were probably also not as healthy back then, there were fewer treatments and people didn't have access to the best health care.
 

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Its the whole Flu genre in general. And that People my age are getting affected a lot that's what changes this into something to think about compared to the flu in the past.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Swine flu is just regular flu, maybe a little stronger.

FYI, the swine flu did NOT originate from pigs. Current theories are that it came from humans and infected pigs, or its a result of really poor flu vaccines.
 

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Swine flu is just a more contagious version of normal flu.
 

mpimpin

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We just had a guy at my school die from it yesterday
 

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I had swiney flu a few weeks ago. It wasnt as tough as people say. And yes, it was diagnosed by a doctor, not by myself.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have had some flu like symptoms this year but not sure if it was swine flu or not. :)
 
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Could this be swine flu, or could it be caused by excessive pot/cigarette smoking?

Sounds like food poisoning to me.
 
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user43770

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San Jose California said:
Maybe maybe. I had a bowl of cereal, some artificial vanilla flavoring put in the cereal, a burger at jack in the box, and some chinese food in the fridge. My dad said I could be allergic to sodium glucamate (or something like that) from the chinese food, but I had that fridge chinese food a couple days ago I think. Also, no one else got food poisoning from the jack in the box.

It could be from sharing weed from a bong, or a cig, last night and I do remember someone (word that I don't say)-lipping it. It remains a mystery. Regardless I wonder what the huge painful headache was from a few days ago.

There are several different types of food poisoning. Ever heard of E-coli? That sh1t will mess you up!
 
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Aside from that, I couldn't add my last class today and now my parents won't get free health insurance cuz I don't have 12 credits, and I don't even know who to blame, great.

I think you can take 9 hours and work part-time and still qualify for your parents' insurance.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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San Jose California said:
Could this be swine flu, or could it be caused by excessive pot/cigarette smoking and my body just wants to get rid of the toxins?
Its probably food poisoning.

If symptoms don't improve after 24 hours then go see a doctor because you are going to be severely dehydrated. Make sure you drink some water and eat riped Bananas if you can, to replace lost electrolytes.
 

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I don't know about the swine flu, but you sure as hell don't want food poisoning. I had 107 degree temperature and felt like I was in hell for like a week.
 
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