"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Swimsuit round to be cancelled in 2015 Miss World Competition

TheMonkeyKing

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How do we feel about this men?

Personally I rarely find any of them uniquely attractive.... in fact from the Class of 2014, Bermuda and Kosovo in particular could easily be mistaken for men.

http://www.missworld.com/Contestants/

Equally, the Miss England offering is far from our best effort. I apologise on behalf on my entire state.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who Dares Win

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I remember some cvnt saying "its not the size of the bottom that should matter but what a woman has to say"... yeah makes sense in a beauty contest.

Now all we're going to get are smart fat girls talking about how they want to work for world peace, save the animals or fight gender discriminations.

I wonder why they have nothing to say about mr olympia challenge, maybe they want to get some coat to the athlets cut out the flexing time and let them speak about what matters in this world as well...
"it doesnt matter how much muscles he has, the mr olympia winner should be first of all a man of moral".

Next thing will be erections being banned from adult movies cause they dont really fit in a sexual intercourse.
 

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The whole thing is a bit ridiculous; pedestalising a bunch of generic-looking chicks for being distinctly average and spouting ill-informed opinions. There is no male equivalent.

If they're gonna be so pathetically politically-correct, may be they should get some over-weight chicks, amputees, midgets etc if they are to truly shed the superficiality.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I agree with TheMonkeyKing. I feel absolutely zero attraction for these women. Even when I was 19 they did nothing for me. TMK hit the nail on the head..."generic".

I'll take a girl with minor physical flaws or inconsistencies any day over these girls.
 

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Fair enough question. What's missing is character. Perfection seems very lifeless and stale to me.

I would liken it to one of my businesses, which is vintage amusement park machinery restoration. I used to restore them to absolute perfection, just as they were when they rolled out of the factory 90 years ago.

But I found them to be cold and lifeless. I started restoring them with moderate imperfections, with essentially evidence of the "life" they've lived over the years, and they took on an entirely different vibe. They were more vibrant, alive, and just plain interesting.

Similarly I find so called "perfection" in women to be cold and lifeless. Also my formula that I occasionally post her comes into play: "Physical beauty is inversely proportional to quality of character" and I'm sure that has something to do with my preference, too.

I'm saying of course that I like minor imperfection and asymmetries, not major ones.

Having said that, I was once at a nude beach with hundreds of breasts flying around. This one girl walked past me with absolutely perfect, perky breasts, the best ones I've ever seen. I have no idea why these two stood out among all the other hundreds within my line of site, but they were stunning, and I'm not the type of guy who typically says things like that. They seemed absolutely perfectly symmetrical and shaped to perfection.

I told her to be careful, she could put my eye out with one of those things, but that's another story... To this day they come to mind every now and then. I find that amazing in terms of human psychology. What were the subtleties of those particular breasts that enraptured me so much? I'll never know...

So while an overall "Barbie doll" perfection does absolutely nothing for me, a perfect body part can set me over the edge.

Needless to say, personal preference in beauty defies all logic. That's part of the mystery of life IMO.
 

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Iceland
Argentina
Russia
Australia
 

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If she doesn't look stunning in 2 pieces (or if naked! better) then it doesn't matter how she looks wearing her makeup mask and expensive clothes.
 

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They only want to eliminate the swimsuit round so they can sneak in a couple of pretty, but slightly fat girls a few years from now.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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