"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Swimsuit round to be cancelled in 2015 Miss World Competition

TheMonkeyKing

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How do we feel about this men?

Personally I rarely find any of them uniquely attractive.... in fact from the Class of 2014, Bermuda and Kosovo in particular could easily be mistaken for men.

http://www.missworld.com/Contestants/

Equally, the Miss England offering is far from our best effort. I apologise on behalf on my entire state.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who Dares Win

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I remember some cvnt saying "its not the size of the bottom that should matter but what a woman has to say"... yeah makes sense in a beauty contest.

Now all we're going to get are smart fat girls talking about how they want to work for world peace, save the animals or fight gender discriminations.

I wonder why they have nothing to say about mr olympia challenge, maybe they want to get some coat to the athlets cut out the flexing time and let them speak about what matters in this world as well...
"it doesnt matter how much muscles he has, the mr olympia winner should be first of all a man of moral".

Next thing will be erections being banned from adult movies cause they dont really fit in a sexual intercourse.
 

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The whole thing is a bit ridiculous; pedestalising a bunch of generic-looking chicks for being distinctly average and spouting ill-informed opinions. There is no male equivalent.

If they're gonna be so pathetically politically-correct, may be they should get some over-weight chicks, amputees, midgets etc if they are to truly shed the superficiality.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I agree with TheMonkeyKing. I feel absolutely zero attraction for these women. Even when I was 19 they did nothing for me. TMK hit the nail on the head..."generic".

I'll take a girl with minor physical flaws or inconsistencies any day over these girls.
 

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Fair enough question. What's missing is character. Perfection seems very lifeless and stale to me.

I would liken it to one of my businesses, which is vintage amusement park machinery restoration. I used to restore them to absolute perfection, just as they were when they rolled out of the factory 90 years ago.

But I found them to be cold and lifeless. I started restoring them with moderate imperfections, with essentially evidence of the "life" they've lived over the years, and they took on an entirely different vibe. They were more vibrant, alive, and just plain interesting.

Similarly I find so called "perfection" in women to be cold and lifeless. Also my formula that I occasionally post her comes into play: "Physical beauty is inversely proportional to quality of character" and I'm sure that has something to do with my preference, too.

I'm saying of course that I like minor imperfection and asymmetries, not major ones.

Having said that, I was once at a nude beach with hundreds of breasts flying around. This one girl walked past me with absolutely perfect, perky breasts, the best ones I've ever seen. I have no idea why these two stood out among all the other hundreds within my line of site, but they were stunning, and I'm not the type of guy who typically says things like that. They seemed absolutely perfectly symmetrical and shaped to perfection.

I told her to be careful, she could put my eye out with one of those things, but that's another story... To this day they come to mind every now and then. I find that amazing in terms of human psychology. What were the subtleties of those particular breasts that enraptured me so much? I'll never know...

So while an overall "Barbie doll" perfection does absolutely nothing for me, a perfect body part can set me over the edge.

Needless to say, personal preference in beauty defies all logic. That's part of the mystery of life IMO.
 

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Iceland
Argentina
Russia
Australia
 

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If she doesn't look stunning in 2 pieces (or if naked! better) then it doesn't matter how she looks wearing her makeup mask and expensive clothes.
 

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They only want to eliminate the swimsuit round so they can sneak in a couple of pretty, but slightly fat girls a few years from now.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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