"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Swimming openers?

jonny football hero

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What can i say to a HOT lifeguard at my swimming pool? (that sounds a bit gay but it is a woman).
I've been racking my brains, but can't think of any openers, although i caught her look *down there* ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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blienk

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I'd make a comment about something happening at the pool, or her job in general, since that's pretty much you know about her.
 

Mikelo2k

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How about...

Three simple words:
"HELP I'M DROWNING!!! ;)"

LOL, add a nice wink in there while looking at her to make sure she knows you're just kidding ;) I figure it'd catch her attention, make her laugh a bit and from there you can follow up like:

"Hey, you looked kinda bored up there ;) So whats your name?"

Just an idea ;)
 

JoeyJoJoJunior

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Here's what I did last summer, with a good rate of success. Take your sun tan lotion, and approach her, holding the lotion, ask if she "needs help" if she says yes, your in, if she says no, follow up with, "Oh, well i do." and smile. Worked for me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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CaptainMorgan

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has anyone ever seen the movie "The Sandlot"?
 
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