"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Swimming is the ultimate cardio...

Flabbergasped?

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Swimming is probably the only cardio activity that ALSO gives good resistance training. If you swim at a competitive pace, with all four strokes, the water resistance will strengthen your lats, delts, and the traditional arm muscles (especially the butterfly stroke). And of course, it trains your legs and gets your heart pumping, on top of helping cut out body fat.

I've swimming 40 laps a day in my small neighborhood pool (it's about 20-25 meters across, so that makes a good 1km of swimming) for about three weeks, trying to avoid skipping as much as possible, and the results are amazing. I have abs without even doing crunches, since butterfly requires abdominal strength for the humping motion!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is very true.
I went through a combat swimming school a few years back and after two months of being in the pool/ocean for 12+ hours a day I was in the best shape of my life. My physique was great. Huge shoulders and lats.

If I had to choose one workout for the rest of my life it would be swimming.

Interesting fact: The cooler the water you swim in the more calories you are likely to consume in the following hours.
 

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I agree that it's an awesome form of cardio (and you can add that it's no impact to your list). But really the best cardio is the cardio that the individual finds fun. For me that's kickboxing/martial arts, for some that's riding or cycling.
 

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You mean freestyle right ?? and dont worry about what them others dudes are doing you just keep trying to push out another 100m or so each time and you'll be sweet :)

hmmmmmmmmm summer round the corner time to hit the tan salon and pool w00t :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds good, though I found the Gymnastics to do essential the same as here. I hadn't been so fit or so strong in all my life. I regret giving up, but now I'm gonna pop down to the pool!
 

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My intention is not to impune your findings dude. Swimming is awesome fun and brilliant exercise, cardio-vascular is any sort of excercise that gets your heart beating and your sweat dripping. I found dancing to be an incredible cardio-vascular exercise! in my humble opinion.
But its what you find most comfortable. Heck, if sitting on your arse, playing computer games all day and having a w*nk got your heart racing like a b*stard I'd recommend THAT (but sadly dreams don't always come true LOL)
Joking aside, just get your blood pumping!!
 
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When I used to take competative swimming lessons every tues, wed, thur and friday I swam about 2 Km. My coach would do different kind of routines everyweek! I totally agree with the thread SWIMMING IS THE BEST CARDIO! because you use your WHOLE BODY and it doesn't put pressure on your joints so you can't get injured easily. Swimming helped me get high metabolism and 12% bodyfat :D bad knews is... since moving I haven't found a good place to swim damn I really miss swimming!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I started swimming in April and was about 10% Bodyfat and by the end of May I dropped to like 5%

Swimming is awesome, I had abs and everything showing
 

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So if you get cramps & weak after pushing yourself a bit, is that from pushing yourself too hard and your actually doing the Right Thing(tm) or is it from improper form? I'm also a pretty slow ass swimmer too. Suggestions?
 
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