"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Swimmer's Physique

Celadus

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Anyone know what one of these is? I've been described as this before. I've been looking into those navy seal and ranger type workouts and they've mentioned in them too.

But when I did a search all I got were a bunch of gay personal ads and gay porn sites.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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California Love

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Don't do anything half-assed. Find any good workout routine and be disciplined with your diet. Don't worry about being "too big" and "too bulky" until your at least a few years into training.
 

doctoroxygen

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Try swimming. Pullups also work for widening your shoulders and back, in addition to building triceps. Besides abs, those are the only muscles swimmers have.
 

madgame

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What the hell are yall talking about? He wanted to know what ppl mean when they say "swimmer's physique" and they just mean somebody whos lean (,tall), with broad shoulders. maybe well-defined abs, etc... if they say you got a swimmers physique they mean you look like one of those swimmer guys. Simple as that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FYI, women tend to drool over swimmers. Big shoulders, wide back, cut abs, and zero flab. Not a lot of unsightly body hair either (too much drag).
 
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