"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sweet C+F tip for IMers

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If you're using an IM program that enables the user to post a pic of themselves in the message window (e.g.hotmail messenger)

Just thought of this earlier impromptu whilst IMing a girl:

You: Wow, you're looking pretty...
HB: Thanks/You noticed?/blah
You:...damn rough! Dang, make some effort girl!
(Her: How dare you!)


And/Or

You: You are fit...
Her:Thanks/You noticed?/blah
You:..for no-one but the ugliest/worst/superlative of some sort

Don't know if the americans use 'fit'. Us British use it. Meaning should be obvious.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Have you actually used this to success?

My gut tells me it will push the girl away. It's not funny, it's just rude.
 
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Gotta be careful online dude. Anything can be misunderstood without your tone of voice and facial expressions to let her know you're teasing.

Just make sure you follow anything like that with lol's and jk's if she took it the wrong way. If she seems to follow your intended meaning, then great.
 
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I don't IM much anymore, but I noted that the best way ever of expressing a positive response to a woman's photo is 'hubba hubba.'

Don't ask me why, try it, they love it.
 
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Yeah I should I add I know this girl quite well so she knows I'm not being serious. Ok then, good tip for friends who are girls when IMing. Not good for girls who you know only through myspace or whatever.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Duke said:
Have you actually used this to success?

Yes. maybe I should have put, just thought of and
used this earlier.
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Ok. Yeah, if you have a good rapport with the girl, this kind of thing should fly, especially in person where you can actively demonstrate you're not serious via your tone of voice and facial expressions (VERY IMPORTANT, as Ace Of Flames brought up).

This stuff won't fly on random girls you just met though, so I just want that to be clear for new guys who are experimenting with CF and negs.
 
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yea bros, online sh1t is totally different for things like using negative sh1t for picking up chicks dude. even at hot Hollywood parties that sh1t dont fly wit chicks. other sh1t like hubba hubba might work though ;)
 
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