"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sweet C+F tip for IMers

Ripper

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If you're using an IM program that enables the user to post a pic of themselves in the message window (e.g.hotmail messenger)

Just thought of this earlier impromptu whilst IMing a girl:

You: Wow, you're looking pretty...
HB: Thanks/You noticed?/blah
You:...damn rough! Dang, make some effort girl!
(Her: How dare you!)


And/Or

You: You are fit...
Her:Thanks/You noticed?/blah
You:..for no-one but the ugliest/worst/superlative of some sort

Don't know if the americans use 'fit'. Us British use it. Meaning should be obvious.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Have you actually used this to success?

My gut tells me it will push the girl away. It's not funny, it's just rude.
 

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Gotta be careful online dude. Anything can be misunderstood without your tone of voice and facial expressions to let her know you're teasing.

Just make sure you follow anything like that with lol's and jk's if she took it the wrong way. If she seems to follow your intended meaning, then great.
 

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I don't IM much anymore, but I noted that the best way ever of expressing a positive response to a woman's photo is 'hubba hubba.'

Don't ask me why, try it, they love it.
 

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Yeah I should I add I know this girl quite well so she knows I'm not being serious. Ok then, good tip for friends who are girls when IMing. Not good for girls who you know only through myspace or whatever.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Duke said:
Have you actually used this to success?

Yes. maybe I should have put, just thought of and
used this earlier.
 

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Ok. Yeah, if you have a good rapport with the girl, this kind of thing should fly, especially in person where you can actively demonstrate you're not serious via your tone of voice and facial expressions (VERY IMPORTANT, as Ace Of Flames brought up).

This stuff won't fly on random girls you just met though, so I just want that to be clear for new guys who are experimenting with CF and negs.
 

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yea bros, online sh1t is totally different for things like using negative sh1t for picking up chicks dude. even at hot Hollywood parties that sh1t dont fly wit chicks. other sh1t like hubba hubba might work though ;)
 
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