“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sweet C+F tip for IMers

Ripper

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If you're using an IM program that enables the user to post a pic of themselves in the message window (e.g.hotmail messenger)

Just thought of this earlier impromptu whilst IMing a girl:

You: Wow, you're looking pretty...
HB: Thanks/You noticed?/blah
You:...damn rough! Dang, make some effort girl!
(Her: How dare you!)


And/Or

You: You are fit...
Her:Thanks/You noticed?/blah
You:..for no-one but the ugliest/worst/superlative of some sort

Don't know if the americans use 'fit'. Us British use it. Meaning should be obvious.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Have you actually used this to success?

My gut tells me it will push the girl away. It's not funny, it's just rude.
 

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Gotta be careful online dude. Anything can be misunderstood without your tone of voice and facial expressions to let her know you're teasing.

Just make sure you follow anything like that with lol's and jk's if she took it the wrong way. If she seems to follow your intended meaning, then great.
 

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I don't IM much anymore, but I noted that the best way ever of expressing a positive response to a woman's photo is 'hubba hubba.'

Don't ask me why, try it, they love it.
 

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Yeah I should I add I know this girl quite well so she knows I'm not being serious. Ok then, good tip for friends who are girls when IMing. Not good for girls who you know only through myspace or whatever.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Duke said:
Have you actually used this to success?

Yes. maybe I should have put, just thought of and
used this earlier.
 

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Ok. Yeah, if you have a good rapport with the girl, this kind of thing should fly, especially in person where you can actively demonstrate you're not serious via your tone of voice and facial expressions (VERY IMPORTANT, as Ace Of Flames brought up).

This stuff won't fly on random girls you just met though, so I just want that to be clear for new guys who are experimenting with CF and negs.
 

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yea bros, online sh1t is totally different for things like using negative sh1t for picking up chicks dude. even at hot Hollywood parties that sh1t dont fly wit chicks. other sh1t like hubba hubba might work though ;)
 
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