"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Swedish Model

In_the_Wild

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Hey, I was making this Cambridge English Exam, and a real hot adresses me in the stairway asking, how the test go for you? We talk for a long while, during the break, grab a bite, and she tells me she's a fashion model.

Anyway, I get her number, quite a few IOI:s and, then the test resumes. Now, she'll only be in town for a while, so is it cool to call her straight away, since she'll be leaving for Paris. Doesn't know when, but "when I feel better about my skin".

Met her 4 hours ago. When do I call her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gungho

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If she is only in town for awhile she probably is looking for a fun time. Call her up this evening and set something up. No use playing the wait game for a chick who is only in town for a shortwhile.
 

The_Lifter

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If you have to ask when you should call her, you probably lack the required skills to carry this through.
 

realsmoothie

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Gee, that's helpful, bud!


Anyhow... if she's not in town for long, she's looking for fun (as was said above) and you better get your butt in gear.
 
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