"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Swedish Model

In_the_Wild

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Hey, I was making this Cambridge English Exam, and a real hot adresses me in the stairway asking, how the test go for you? We talk for a long while, during the break, grab a bite, and she tells me she's a fashion model.

Anyway, I get her number, quite a few IOI:s and, then the test resumes. Now, she'll only be in town for a while, so is it cool to call her straight away, since she'll be leaving for Paris. Doesn't know when, but "when I feel better about my skin".

Met her 4 hours ago. When do I call her?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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gungho

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If she is only in town for awhile she probably is looking for a fun time. Call her up this evening and set something up. No use playing the wait game for a chick who is only in town for a shortwhile.
 

The_Lifter

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If you have to ask when you should call her, you probably lack the required skills to carry this through.
 

realsmoothie

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Gee, that's helpful, bud!


Anyhow... if she's not in town for long, she's looking for fun (as was said above) and you better get your butt in gear.
 
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