Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hello I am an computer science student from Sweden. Where I study there aren't many girls around and my hobbies are also very male dominated.

So I never get any girls here in Sweden, the only action I ever see is when I travel abroad. In other countries it's much easier to have sex with hb's.

Why is it impossible for me to do the same back home in Sweden?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tomb

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Find out where the ladies hang and go there.
 
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Everywhere I go the girls are either going out with their boyfriend or busy with a group of girls. I don't have enough courage to approach an entire group of girls.
 
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Go to a nightclub, dance intimate with the girls, make out with them and take them home... it's easy here in sweden to get girls.

Så länge man inte är för fet för ett **** :p
 
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DrMetallica

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
Go to a nightclub, dance intimate with the girls, make out with them and take them home... it's easy here in sweden to get girls.

Så länge man inte är för fet för ett **** :p
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Make sure to flex the muscles too... :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Levrone

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WTF man I always thought that scandinavian chicks are the best in the world and that they approach the guys.

I think you're just on the wrong places. Do you live in a big city or a small village? I don't know sweden very well but I think if you don't live in a big city you just live in the middle of nowhere (sweden is big :p).

On my vacation I met some scandinavian girls... and I can tell you they're the best. They're blond :)D) and they just go all the way. Bad thing is, I dont live in sweden.
And you live there and you don't do anything.!!!!
 
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Scandinavian girls are waaaay better looking then in the rest of Europe.
 
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I live in Göteborg, the second largest city with a population of about 400 000 - 500 000. The thing is I am to fat for a ****...

And the bars and clubs I like to visist play heavy metal and there aren't many girls in those places, and most of them are already taken.

I believe going to a normal club would be a waste of time because I would feel even more uncomfortable around girls att normal clubs.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Svullo read the bible man.. being fat is no excuse.. im in Malmö. peace
 
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Scandinavian girls are pretty indeed! The woman from there are looking very independent, educated and sometimes a bit cold.
It doesn't mather if you are fat. By showing self confidence and show you are not needy you can get far! It has al to do with personality! And if you show personality you can get far with Swedish girls! Any girl actualy...
Gotheborg is a large town. Enough girls over there. You should not complain, only when you life in Amal or above the artic circle!
So go get them, those Swedish girls! You make me jealous by living there!

Nice talking to you...
DW Netherlands
 
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